Thursday, Jan 27, 2005 at 17:24
I think the problem here is that there are two sorts of "disadvantaged kids" in the world, the one who respond to positive encouragement and assistance, and then the one who need to be sent to the place in Utah where they send them out into the wild, and they have to even earn the right to even the most basic of reward eg, spoons forks and knives.
This is a generalised comment; too many kids these days feel that they have a right to everything, nothing needs to be earned. There is very little respect for their elders/teacher/authority.
My 15yr old is having difficultly with the fact that we don't have the latest games, and we're not giving him a car, we're helping with a loan.
Sorry this next bit it long but it's one of my favourites!! and appologise to those who have already seen it!!!
Don't Mess With Mom
My son came
home from school one day,with a smirk upon his face.
He decided he was smart enough,to put me in my place.
"Guess what I learned in Civics Two,that's taught by Mr. Wright?
It's all about the laws today,The "Children's Bill of Rights."
It says I need not clean my room, don't have to cut my hair.
No one can tell me what to think, or speak, or what to wear.
I have freedom from religion, and regardless what you say,
I don't have to bow my head, and I sure don't have to pray.
I can wear earrings if I want, And pierce my tongue and nose.
I can read and watch just what I like, and get tattoos from head to toes.
And if you ever spank me, I'll charge you with a crime.
I'll back up all my charges, with the marks on my behind.
Don't you ever touch me, My body's only for my use,
not for your hugs and kisses, that's just more child abuse.
Don't preach about your morals, like your Mama did to you.
That's nothing more than mind control, And it's illegal too!
Mom, I have these children's rights, so you can't influence me,
or I'll call Children's
Services Division, better known as C. S. D.
Of course my first instinct was, to toss him out the door.
But the chance to teach him a lesson made me think a little more.
I mulled it over carefully, I couldn't let this go.
A smile crept upon my face, he's messing with a pro.
The next day I took him shopping at the local Goodwill Store.
I told him,"Pick out all you want, there's shirts and pants galore..
I've called and checked with C. S. D. who said they didn't care
if I bought you K-Mart shoes instead of those Nike Airs.
And I've canceled that appointment to take your driver's
test.
The C. S. D. is unconcerned so I'll decide what's best.
I said "No time to stop and eat, or pick up stuff to munch.
And tomorrow you can start to learn to make your own sack lunch."
Just save the raging appetite, and wait till dinner time.
We're having liver and onions, a favorite dish of
mine.
He asked "Can I please rent a movie, to watch on my VCR?"
"Sorry, but I sold your TV, to put new tires on my car."
I also rented out your room, you'll take the couch instead.
All the C. S. D. requires is a roof for over your head.
Your clothing won't be trendy now, and I'll choose what we eat.
That allowance that you used to get, will buy me something neat.
I'm selling off your jet ski, dirt-bike and roller blades.
Check out the "Parents Bill of Rights," It's in effect today!
Hey hot shot, are you crying, and why are you on your knees?
Are you asking God to help you out, instead of C. S. D..?
SANDY
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Follow Up By: Bonz (Vic) - Thursday, Jan 27, 2005 at 17:36
Thursday, Jan 27, 2005 at 17:36
Priceless!
We had our son say No! I am not doing that.... and I ponited out the same things, once you strike out on your own you can't pick and choose what you do. He quickly saw what he was doing and came along......
Often we cut off our noses to spite our faces. And live to regret it.
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