AnswerID: 176394 Submitted: Friday, Jun 02, 2006 at 16:38
Muddies Doe(Trippn)
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HI Jo & Mark
It really doesn't matter who gives and doesn't as I am sure most of us give to different charities at some point and if not on a regular basis.
So whichever way someone benefits along the way with medical techiques that are improved because people........simply give!
I was thrown for a 6 in 1984 when the eldest son who was 7 was diagnosed with a type of bone tumor, not only with 1 but with 2 of them. After his biopsy and 5 days of the most deverstating waiting period of my life while trying to care for 2 younger ones and keeping a brave face to my son, we were told it was the lesser of 2 evils. Nevertheless, many trips to the hospital as well as a nice specialist doctor who did it locally for us free of charge because this was his field of expertise plus this was a very uncomman tumor. My son at the age of 14 was given the all clear as best as they can give it. Now you think that would be great and it truely was but for other reasons (during this time my mother was diagnoised with CML in 1987 and died in 1991 and later my father who was diagnosed and died in 2000 with his cancer) his life could take yet another unexpected turn because he has already had some form of cancer.
So my therory is....... "Life is what we make of it - So make the best of it"
So research as much about this as you can and arm yourself with knowledge on various techniques to deal with what you 2 are about to go through.
Best wishes and when there is a light at the tunnel, go for it and enjoy your tie together.
Cya
Judy & Muddy
:)
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