Friday, Mar 23, 2007 at 05:23
Hi Duncs,
I heard that discussion and agreed with most of what was said but only partially on the issue of traumatising the family.
I work in the mental health field and daily see people afected by Post Traumtic Stress Disorder.
My concern is that we are becoming a society of weak individuals and that the humane act of putting an animal out of it's misery could be enough to trigger some sort of traumatic episode that a person can carry on through their entire life.
I think my role as a parent is to teach my kids that some things in life are going to be tough to deal with and to help them to develop the character strong enough that when it counts, they are able to suck it up and do what needs to be done.
My kids have watched me stop after we had hit and half killed a sheep out near
Windorah. They watched me use the back of an axe to finish it off to stop it's suffering. They also saw how hard it was for me to do and how sick it made me feel afterwards.
My hope is that they will grow up with the strength of character to be able to do the same thing.
The confusing part to this equation is that issues like this only seem to really have any long term effect on city kids. It seems that bush kids grow up with more of a balanced view of the value of life and are more willing to face the tough things head-on. I don't know what the difference is but I can't help but think that more than anything else, it is from watching how their parents react in difficult situations that prepare them for the challenges ahead.
I am not challenging anything you have said Duncs, more just following on with my thoughts after the ABC Radio discussion.
Cheers mate,
Brett
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