What sort of "Sorry" are we?

Submitted: Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 17:37
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In light of Axle's deleted post I'll pose the question of asking what do we mean by "Sorry" or do we think it shouldn't be said and if not why?

This is an area which is relevant to the ethos of this forum providing people have the maturity to discuss it rationally - and that includes both sides of the expected opinions.

Incidentally; simply because I make this post don't assume you can second guess my stance.

Mike Harding

PS. David; I caught your reply to Axle - I thought you may have resisted pressure a little longer - two sides to a coin etc....
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Reply By: Moose - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 17:48

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 17:48
G'day Mike
This should elicit some interesting replies.
All I'll say is "the sins of the father should not be visited upon the child".
Cheers from the Moose
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Reply By: Ozboc - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 17:59

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 17:59
there is a large difference between SORRY and "i apologize"
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i apologize to people when i am not sorry but have to say it for political correctness

Lmao - its wonderful to exploit a language :)

Boc


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Follow Up By: Smudger - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:44

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:44
You're playing semantics here Ozboc.
It's fairly well accepted that sorry in the context of this subject is an apology.

I think it's simple.
There is a generation of people, who are still very much with us, who were treated very badly by a well meaning but ignorant white bureaucracy, and they are justifiably angry about it. Many of these people are my age (I ain't that old) and they were going through all this crap while I was grooving to the Beachboys 'Good Vibrations' without a care in the world.

I have no problem with the Government making an apology to them for the treatment that was inflicted on them by some people who were acting on 'our' behalf. Most (if not all) State Governments have already made their apologies. And sure, some of those people have sued and won compensation from State Governments, and good luck to them. No amount of money can give them back the life they might have had with their own families.
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Reply By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:19

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:19
Firstly Axle If you really new what you were talking about you would have not posted that thread.

The reason being is It is not an apology to the aboriginal people, it is to a small section of them that were taken from their families, for no other reason than they thought it was a good idea at the time.

Steve.
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Follow Up By: Member - Fred G (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:32

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:32
Good on you Steve...well said...and absolutely correct.
Fred.
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Follow Up By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:39

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:39
My apologies to Axle as it should have been Axel (the real one).

Cheers Steve.
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Follow Up By: Member - Axle - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:42

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:42
Thank god for a BRAIN!!

Thanks Steve !

Cheers AXLE!!
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Follow Up By: Dunco (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:19

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:19
It was not only aboriginal children that were taken.

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Follow Up By: Member - jjt98 (QLD) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 15:41

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 15:41
Hey there - Me, like most other uninformed opinionists - am of the belief that 'stolen' should be replaced with 'taken' as I understand that the children were 'taken' due to fears of harm to them by their own. Is it not true that the ones that were taken were of 'mixed race' and not accepted by the tribal elders - THIS IS A QUESTION NOT A STATEMENT.
Anyway, when are we going to realise that under our skin we are all the same species (that goes for both sides of the fence), it's 2008 & it disgusts me to think there is still racial tension in the world.
Cheers
Jason
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Follow Up By: Member - JohnR (Vic)&Kath - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 23:55

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 23:55
Dunco, you are right with that. It was happening in Victoria labout 20 years ago when a certain Victorian Minister of Community Services had to account for it.
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Reply By: Member - Axle - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:24

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:24
Mike , Please clarify!, Who you are refering to?


AXLE.

AXEL.

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Follow Up By: Mike Harding - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:32

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:32
I'm an engineer Axle - spelling is not my strong point :)
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Follow Up By: Member - DAZA (QLD) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:41

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:41
I lost my parents in 1958 when I was 10 years old, nobody said
sorry to me, and we never had on going hand outs,
I know it is a different situation, re the Aboriginal stolen generation,
but it happened in the past, leave it there.

Daza
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Reply By: Member - shane (SA) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:25

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:25
my thoughts on this are, if my grandfather murdered someone, should i be the one that goes to jail. i hope not.
the government did what they did for what was thought right in those times. The government of today was not responsible, so why are we saying sorry. as stated above, we do our fair share of helping and paying in the interest of a better life and equality for our native Australians. enough is enough.
cheers shane.
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Reply By: Member - Barnesy - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:34

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:34
My Grandpa still holds a grudge towards the Japanese for what they did to him and Australia in WWII.

Many Aboriginal people distrust white governments and beaurocracies for what they did to them and their families. There are many stories of mothers taking their sick child to hospital and never seeing them again! Would they and their children trust white people again?

Rudd is the current leader of the white government and it's his job to say " bleep , my ancestors in government stuffed up and damaged you and your ancestors, sorry mate we won't do that again".

What's so hard about that? Trying to build trust.

Johnny should have done it 10 years ago, remnants of his thinking are still around......

Barnesy
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Follow Up By: Gramps (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:43

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:43
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Johnny should have done it 10 years ago, remnants of his thinking are still around......"

And Paul should have done it before him
And Bob should have done it before him
And Malcolm should have done it before him .....

etc etc etc

Drop your political bias for once

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Follow Up By: Member - Davoe (Yalgoo) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:49

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:49
Actually Kevin rudd is (unfortunatly) the leader of Australian Government doesnt matter if you are black white or yellow
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Follow Up By: Member - Fred G (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:03

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:03
Good to see someone in Government finally has the balls to say sorry...irrespective of their political preferences.
Good on you Kevin Rudd.
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Follow Up By: Member - Barnesy - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:20

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:20
Gramps, that's the second time you've accused me of political bias. I struggle to understand where you are coming from.

I think I made my point clear about this issue. Political bias? I don't see your point.

Thank you Fred from NSW.

Barnesy

I just saw (whilst I was typing this) on the news Gramps that Mr Howard has refused to attend the 'sorry' service. Can anybody answer why? Mr Fraser, a liberal, will attend. Am I the one who is biased?
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Follow Up By: madfisher - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:34

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:34
Fraser is now regarded as a left wing pinkie by most liberals.lol. At lest he is a fly fisheman
Pete
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Follow Up By: Gramps (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:49

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:49
Barnesy,

Second time !!! You're losing count. If you're too stupid to understand it then I won't waste my time on explaining it in terms simple enough for you to comprehend.

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Follow Up By: Member - Barnesy - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:41

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:41
Reading your member quote Gramps: Mr Howard resisted change on many issues and he ended up dieing from it. Only the second sitting PM in over 100 years to lose his own seat. LOL
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Follow Up By: Truckster (Vic) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:06

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:06
I never voted for the Milky bar kid. didnt vote for Mr sheen either.

Nobody has the right to apologise for me, but me. Specially when I have done nothing wrong.

Its all a money take.. they want billions, and will get it, plus more and then more, then go to court, and get more again... And my tax will go up and up and up and up, and my family will get less and less and less.. Oh yea, IM all for it.
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Follow Up By: Pezza (Bris) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 09:34

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 09:34
LMAO ! Start calling you "Grumpy Gramps" soon Al :-)

100% with you Truckster on all accounts, well said, as usual.

Cheers
Pezza
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Follow Up By: Gramps (NSW) - Monday, Feb 11, 2008 at 07:09

Monday, Feb 11, 2008 at 07:09
Pezza,

LOL I'm quite restrained actually.


Truckster,

I agree. The legal "profession" is beside itself with glee.

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Reply By: Member - Lionel A (WA) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:49

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:49
Let us not forget that this will be an apology made by a politican on behalf of politicians.

By the very nature of these people and their chosen career, I find it difficult to understand how any man, black or white, can put any creedence in such an apology.

Sorry Chasps.........the Johnny Walker is kicking in.

Like Axel........I hate everyone today.....hahaha.

Lionel.
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Reply By: troopyman - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:56

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:56
I am sorry the "stolen generation " happened so i say sorry . That was quite easy .
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Follow Up By: fisho64 - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 01:50

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 01:50
now get your wallet out.
Not quite so easy?
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Follow Up By: Bonz (Vic) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 07:20

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 07:20
sadly fisho I await the claims and guff that may follow, however there was comment on the radio that Rudds apology will be made in Parliament and therefore is not subject to litigation......... We wait and see
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Follow Up By: troopyman - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 07:26

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 07:26
I dunno fisho64 , you sound like a Liberal donator .
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Follow Up By: fisho64 - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 09:47

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 09:47
We have donated liberally in the past to several charities, especially PMH childrens hospital. Not so much now as I have a large family.
Not sure of the relevance though??
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Reply By: Crackles - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:59

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:59
I agree that more needs to be done to assist aboriginal communities lift their living standards & if this Sorry statement can be a catalyst for change that would be great. Where those aboriginal leaders need to be cautious is starting litigation will only drive a deeper wedge & most likely make things worse.
Lets hope a precedent is not being set here with a string of apologies for every past error governments have made.
Cheers Craig............
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Follow Up By: Member - shane (SA) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:12

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:12
Crackles this is not a personal attack but, apart from throwing billions of dollars at the native Australian population, what do you suggest we as white Australians could do to lift their living standards?
they have the same access to medical as you an I,
the same access to government help as you and I,
they have the same access to public housing as you and I.
how far do we go.
after speaking to some native Australians and asking them what they want, guess what, they mostly want what every other person wants.
to live life the way they want,
to be happy,
to be able to pick and choose their own futures.
to work and spend their money the way they want,
to be seen as a worth while human been.
i don't know about you, but that's what i want.
its government policy that makes them, them and us.
cheers Shane.
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Follow Up By: Mainey (wa) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:25

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:25
Shane,
Having lived and worked with indigenous Australians, I sorry but I can't agree with your thoughts of what they receive from the Government and what they say they want !!

You can't blame any Government as you have done ""its government policy that makes them, them and us""

Mainey . . .
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Follow Up By: Member - shane (SA) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:33

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:33
hi Mainey, please tell me then what they want? ( in general) i also have lived and worked with them, and my sister in laws brother is married to a native Australian. i have spent many a good time with her family, and have had this discussion many times.
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Follow Up By: Louie the fly - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:57

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:57
Very well thought out words Shane.

We all want to choose our destiny. Unfortunately, some choose a good one and some choose a bad one. Sorry will not heal the wound, friendship, trust and support will.

BTW, are the churches going to say sorry as well? They had a fair hand in it also didn't they?

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Follow Up By: Crackles - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:25

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:25
I agree Shane throwing more millions after bad is no solution. There needs to be a change.......a change in attitudes and the direction from all parties concerned cos what they've done up til now is certainly not working.
Cheers Craig......
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Reply By: Member - barry F (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:59

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 18:59
To my way of thinking, a wrong was done at the time but the intention was an honourable one as it was what was thought at the time a way of improving the quality of life for these children.

I think the previous Govt. stance on refusing to apologise was based on the can of worms it would open up from a financial compensation point of view, not one of compassion. It would be us, the present generation pouring tax dollars at something we had no control over. So why put our tax dollars towards it when it would be better spent & the Australian community as whole better benefit if our taxes were spent on today's needed infrastructure.

On that basis I think the Howard Govt. got it right & it now looks like the Rudd Govt. is going to do something that they will live to regret. Not from a compassionate point of view, just from where all the compensation dollars will go & what community benefit the compensation dollars will be spent on?

Just my two bobs worth. Cheers

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Follow Up By: Member - jjt98 (QLD) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 16:21

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 16:21
Nicely said Barry
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Reply By: Member - Davoe (Yalgoo) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:05

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:05
As long as issues like applogies are making frontpage news in relation to aboriginal problems instead of real problems and real solutions they have no hope
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Follow Up By: Member - Fred G (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:17

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:17
This apology is not meant to solve any social issues with current generations, as I understand it Davoe. It refers to an entirely different issue involving an entirely different generation. Nothing to do with what I assume you are refering to...IMHO...:-)
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Reply By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:18

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:18
Hey Mike Harding

Are you prepared to comment??

Steve.
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Follow Up By: Mike Harding - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:29

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:29
Fair question Steve - but I specifically started this thread in order to hear what others had to say - it's an emotive subject after all. Let's let it run for 24 hours or so....

I doubt anyone on this forum would accuse me of being shy of offering my opinion...? :)

Mike Harding
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Follow Up By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:45

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:45
I was not sorry that the original post was deleted, as I was insulted by the lack of truth in its content.

I wasn't all that happy about this one to start, but it seems to be going down a respectable road at the moment.

There are some interesting comments so far.

Cheers Steve.
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Follow Up By: Axel [ the real one ] - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:22

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:22
What lack of truth would that be Steve ? that we as a nation spend a total of $48,ooo.oo per yr per indigenous man /woman/ child ,its in the public record , sorry ? u betcha , good money after bad does not solve the problem.
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Reply By: Mainey (wa) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:21

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:21
I wasn't there, I'm sorry the 'removed' children are unhappy, I'm also sorry I didn't pick the right Tatslotto numbers too

Mainey . . .
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Follow Up By: Member - Fred G (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:47

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 19:47
If your biggest unhappiness is incorrect tatslotto numbers, on the law of averages you will be unhappy for a long time me thinks..LOL...:-))
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Follow Up By: Bonz (Vic) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 07:30

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 07:30
so will the so-called stolen generation
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Reply By: mike w (WA) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:04

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:04
Its a tough topic, two very different opinions and god almighty fence between them.

For me, an perhaps I may be naive, it is unfortunate IN HINDSITE that what occured did. Not something that I personally feel that i should apologise for as it was not anything that I directly or indirectly had any hand in. I do however feel that I should acknowledge that it did occur, and take it as a lesson for future reference to ensure that similar situations do not arise again.

However the whole sorry debate, IMO is a bit jaded when considering the true definition of sorry-'feeling regret, compunction, sympathy, pity, etc' This, is where I think some of the confusion and debate may stem from (for me that is) as no where in its definition does it apply any form of statute of time to saying sorry. So in essence, if the people (either as an individual or collectively) do have these emotions, they are quite possibly well within their rights to say sorry to those affected.

Unfortunately best practice changes in light of new evidence based research, sometimes many, many years later. Its just unfortunate that we don't always get it right initially. This, IMO is what I believe has occurred here.

Another concern that I also have with this issue, which im sure has been mentioned before, is the issue of compensation. large sums of money handed out can do more harm than good, and in essence provides a false facade of righteousnesses and 'solving the issue' for bureaucrats and the likes to hide behind. If compensation is given, is it going to be wasted on grog, drugs, the latest car, the cousins and other blow ins looking for a hand out, or is it going to be put to good use in attempt to improve the life of these people, be it accommodation, training, health etc? I certainly hope the later, as allowing the former to occur could really be put in the same category as the original issue we are discussing.

Mike H, well done for putting this topic out there (I missed Axel/axles original post) You stated "simply because I make this post don't assume you can second guess my stance". My reply to that- it doesn't matter. Your allowed an opinion, just like I am, and the next person. That is the advantage of living in a democratic society. It is just unfortunate that many people in this world can not accept that the guy next door is different to them, has different thoughts, values, ideals etc etc and that their opinion may differ. It does, however take a human being to acknowledge these differences and agree to disagree.

Mike W
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Reply By: kend88 - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:28

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:28
When talking to some aboriginal people on a recent trip through Central Australia, they indicated, rather than the Gov't say sorry, they would like the opportunity to say thank you. They were certain that not only was their life far better than it could ever have been had they remained with their families, they would most likely have been dead 20,30 or 40 years ago.

Ken D
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Follow Up By: Hairy (NT) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:49

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:49
Gday,
WOW!!!!
Now thats a statement!
How many people did you talk to to come up with that?

Its is partley true, but I wouldnt say that is the general feeling.

Cheers
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Reply By: Member No 1- Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:57

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 20:57
wasnt me ..i was not there
why should I or anyone supposedly saying its on behalf of I apologise for me?
efin buearucrats!!!
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Reply By: Axel [ the real one ] - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:02

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:02
Mike , deleted or not my stance on the subject of "sorry " remains the same ,, should the Queen of England say sorry because a long forgotten relative sent Lt Cook to the Pacific ?,should the Dutch people say sorry for colonising Sth Africa? or should we go back all through history to even the Vandals and Goths for there exploits in overuling parts of the world, where do we stop ??? a stone age people were found and for the last 200 odd years they have been brought into " civilisation ",,,,,through all human history a race /class /tribe has been overrun by another , sorry for what ??? being human and trying to help the less fortunate ?? right or wrong it is the way of mankind and it will never change.
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Follow Up By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:10

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:10
If you really believe that dribble you posted before,

I would say you are the less fortunate one.

Steve.
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Follow Up By: Willem - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:30

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:30
Yeah Axel

Should you say SORRY for calling me a racist in a post deleted long ago?
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Follow Up By: Axel [ the real one ] - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:30

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:30
Well each to his own ,, some people such as yourself Steve just cant see the truth of a dilemma when it presents itself ,, perhaps YOU can enlighten us of what we have to be sorry for , ,,,
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Follow Up By: Axel [ the real one ] - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:41

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:41
Willem ,as if it would make any difference ,,,,??? non /zip / zilch.
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Follow Up By: Willem - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:55

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:55
Thats what I figured Axel...you are still at the top of my R.Sole List



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Follow Up By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:19

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:19
were does the source of your information come from??

As for seeing the truth I see it more times in a day than you have in your life time.

You worry about how much we spend on Aboriginal people, when we spend a lot more on foreign aid and as for money spent on a per capita basis based on money spent on Aboriginal verses money spent on white people, Aboriginal people get stuff all.

Approx 95% of Aboriginal people live in remote Australia, 90 odd % of Australians live on the coast and were is 95% of the government infrastructure built? answer on the coast.

Aboriginal people never starved when there was drought, they were much smarter than that, that why they survived for 50000+ years.

You said they should thank us for their education, well here's the truth one of the out stations that Mal function visited, when he asked why so many kids didn't go to school, the answer was there are 600 kids and only 200 school places, and guess what since the intervention nothing has changed.

The trouble is Axel I could pull your original post to shreds with facts that would blow you away,( Except I don't have it, your post), the simple truth is you wouldn't understand it.

The trouble is Axel in the media half of what you read is Bull and the other half is Sh1t.

you should try spending more time finding out the facts as opposed to making a fool of yourself.

If any of this offends you, then think how the people that were taken from their families felt, because they unlike us they didn't have a say or the right to freedom of speech.

Please note the figures I quoted above are approximates only.

Steve
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Follow Up By: Gramps (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:26

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:26
Steve,

"Approx 95% of Aboriginal people live in remote Australia"

Verrrrrrry aproximate depending on your definition of "remote".

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Follow Up By: Hairy (NT) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:53

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:53
Gday Steve,
I dont want to step into what sounds to be turning into a heated debate but a couple things you said arent quite right In my opinion.

You said :as for money spent on a per capita basis based on money spent on Aboriginal verses money spent on white people, Aboriginal people get stuff all."
Remember the money you say is spent on "white people" is for all people eg. roads hospitals housing etc is used by all people(aboriginals included).
Where on the other hand what is spent on Aboriginal is meant for and generaly only allowed for Aboriginals.

The other thing was the schools...
I have never seen an aboriginal school yet with full attendance, let alone not enough room.

Cheers
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Follow Up By: Axel [ the real one ] - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:19

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:19
Facts Steve Facts , not approximates , facts from the public record .Dept of Aboriginal Affairs. budget spending .....and you still have not said what we as a nation should apologise for ,, should we apologise for trying to stop child rape ? forced "marriage" of 12 yr old girls to elder cousins ect ect because it is traditional ,, the only one who is full of s is when you look in the mirror and try to justify what cannot be justified by any reasonable person.
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Follow Up By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 00:03

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 00:03
Axel If the original thread you posted were your words were did you get your facts from.

I do however suspect you jumped on a band wagon when you received the Email that a few others on this forum received.

As I said in a post above, We are not saying sorry to the whole Aboriginal population, we are saying sorry to a small portion that were taken from their families with little to no reason.

No the reasons you give above were not the reason they were taken then, how ever that is a problem in there society now.

If you are as smart as you think you are, you would have seen that that Email was based on no factual evidence and transfered it to your junk email box to delete later on.

Unless you can provide factual evidence to prove that email was correct in any way I couldn't give a rats arse what you think of me or my opinion, as I couldn't give any credence to you or your post without the facts to back it up with.

I await the facts.

Steve.
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Follow Up By: Steve from Top End Explorer Tours - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 00:46

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 00:46
Axel

On reflection I will not be answering any more post on this thread.

So if you wish to follow up feel free, but do so with the knowledge that I will not respond.

I am not afraid of what you have to say, as you have your opinion and I have mine,it seems we will never agree, therefore I see no reason to continue this argument.

Cheers Steve.



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Reply By: Bega Photographer - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:05

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:05
Heard on the news tonight that the removal of the children took place between 1910 and 1970.

That means that anyone alive nowand over 38 was around when it was still happening and anyone over 59 was an adult when aboriginal children were being taken from their families.

Eleven years ago, when the recommendation was made to apologize, those ages were 27 and 48.

So to my mind, the argument that it was a different generation doesn't hold up.

I don't know what year it was that Australia's involvement in the Vietnam war was terminated by the newly elected Labor government. I guess it was the early 1970s. I was married in 1970 and it was not long afterward.

I'm interested to know if the removal of Aboriginal children was stopped by people power in the way that our involvement in the Vietnam was was, or was it a bureaucratic or government decision?

And yes, I was quite ignorant of what was going on around me, when in my early 20s. But that's not an excuse. That just says that I was naive.

So, how many of us can say that we were a part of the movement to stop the forceful removal of Aboriginal children?
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Reply By: Member - Stephen F (VIC) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:31

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:31
Can some clear up for me the reason why we're saying sorry.
Is it just for the stolen generation, or does the apology cover a broad range of topics.
Regards..........Stephen.
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Reply By: splits - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:42

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:42
I wonder if this apology will be extended to include the little aboriginal girl who was taken from her community in Qld last year in a blaze of publicity for much the same reason the "stolen" generation were taken? How about all of the others who were taken last year, the years before that and those who will be taken this year? Somehow I don't think they will get a mention because it is not trendy, politically correct or whatever other reason this apology is being given.

While the Government is in the apologising mood, what about the other stolen generation that I was a witness to while growing up at school. I attended the Catholic primary school at Waitara (Sydney) between the years 1951 to 55 before moving on down the hill to St Leos College when it opened in 56. The Sisters of Mercy ran the school and the huge orphanage next door. At any given time of the day during those years, and who knows how many before then, you would see young single pregnant women sitting quietly in the church. They had been sent there from all over the state by their families who were too ashamed, thanks to having been brain washed by church leaders, to have people see their daughters with a baby and no husband. Those babies were born and adopted out immediately without their mothers even seeing them. They were not in moral danger, they were not neglected and they were not being abused but that did not matter, the church knew what was right and the Governments of the day went along with them. What made it even worse for me personally was years later I found that my own mother was involved in arranging the adoption of two children for the daughter of one of her friends who could not have her own.

About three or four years ago I saw two of those mothers who had their babies taken being interviewed on Sydney television. They spoke of the life long heartache they had suffered due to not having seen their babies and not knowing what happened to them. I wonder how their children are also feeling today and the thousands of other mothers, fathers and children who are in the same position?

What happened at Waitara was going on all over the country. If ever a generation was "stolen' it was that one.

If anything wrong was done to the aboriginal people then apologise but geez I wish the Government would cut out the political BS and apologise to the whole lot, not just one group.

Brian
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Follow Up By: Member - SNAKE (RAOUL) QLD - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:59

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:59
Splits,
About time the other stolen generation had an apology too. Good on you Brian I hope all who have posted on this subject think long and hard about the Australians who do not know their parents,their only crime was being born out of wedlock,something that is the norm today.Cheers Snake and Josie
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Reply By: bv - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:44

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 21:44
Having commenced my career in child welfare at a time when Aboriginal kids were still being lifted just because they were Aboriginal I think Australian governments have a lot to say sorry for. Not only were they removed, they (both white and black) were often deliberately placed a long way from their families in order to break the relationship in the belief that they would adopt a new way of living (eugenics). It didn't work. You only have to look at our jails, even today, where you will find a significant part of the population consists of kids who have been removed and for whom removal from their families and placement in care was more destructive than the situations they came from.

BruceV
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Follow Up By: 93 Navara - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:11

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:11
Yeah that's right BV. Leave em at home even if there are issues. That's the answer, give every mucked up kid his own personal full time welfare officer, we can afford that
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Follow Up By: Gramps (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:16

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:16
BV,

I sincerely hope you're not part of the shambles that masquerades as DOCS in NSW.

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Follow Up By: bv - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:39

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:39
93 Navara I'm not suggesting we should leave kids at home, rather we should be sure there are just reasons for removing them AND we can offer them better care than they were receiving at home.

Al, I'm not with DoCS, but have worked for them in the past. Brian's reference to the Sisters of Mercy at Waitara reminded me that early in my career I used to visit what were known as lying in homes (for unmarried mums) to make sure (?) the arranagements he described were not being set up.

Fortunately adoption has changed a lot over the years for the better, (although there are still many questions hanging over inter-country adoptions).

But to return to Aboriginal kids, while Aboriginal people constitute 2% of our population, 25% of kids in are are Indigenous. I'm not sure what the solution is, or even if there is one that all will agree on.

BruceV
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Follow Up By: Gramps (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:48

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:48
Bruce,

"I'm not sure what the solution is, or even if there is one that all will agree on"

I don't think there is any "one" solution but I am absolutely certain you will never get everyone to agree with any solution. The kids will always suffer one way or another.



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Follow Up By: Member No 1- Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 18:57

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 18:57
gramps..nothing with with docs....if they took the blinkers and hearing muffs off and got some one in there to run the show like humans would
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Follow Up By: Gramps (NSW) - Monday, Feb 11, 2008 at 07:02

Monday, Feb 11, 2008 at 07:02
MN1,

Undoubtedly there are many "humans" working at DOCS. The only problem is they have no power or authority in the organization.

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Reply By: Banjo (WA) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:09

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:09
I believe that some aboriginal elders are saying that by hearing the word 'Sorry' they will feel better. Why? It's only a word.

Perhaps once the 'Stolen Generation' issue is resolved it will be replaced by whatever else some (white?) lawyer can dream up to keep their cash register ticking over. Cynical? You bet!

The best thing anyone who has had a hard time can do is 'get on with it', forget the past, and look to doing what they can to improve their future.

If we all dribbled on about ALL the past injustices we have encountered we would never get anywhere.

Maybe some people just like doing that though.

Their misery is their happiness.

Banjo
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Reply By: Davo_60 - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:15

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:15
I think the removal of children from their families was well intentioned, possibly not the best solution in all cases and perhaps poorly handled at times (by today's standards). But it is probably the last time a government will be prepared to tackle the issue head on putting forward real solutions rather than throwing money at the problem to put a tick in the box, given the criticism that has followed. I'm sorry that we are not prepared put effective solutions in place any more for fear of being crucified for making a mistake or upsetting the vocal minority.

We will be apologising for the current intervention in 20 or 30 years I'm sure, as there is plenty of vocal opposition to that already. I don't think it is always fair to judge the actions of the past in hindsight and then ask the current generation to be held accountable. I would rather the Government had the courage to tackle the issues head on and perhaps make a difference.

Dave
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Reply By: Dunco (NSW) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:21

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 22:21
As I said up above somewhere...it was not only aboriginal children that were removed from their parents.

i didn't do it, so it shouldn't concern me...and the Government said sorry way back in the 1960's ...

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Reply By: disco driver - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:09

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:09
Hi All,

What an interesting collection of thoughts and ideas.

May I make a couple of small comments?

Saying "Sorry" is meaningless unless it is real, heartfelt and sincere,
and not a political strategy to win votes or feel good about oneself.

Saying "Sorry" is also meaningless unless the Apology/Sorry is accepted in the same manner by those who feel that they have been "wronged".

If this is not the case, what's the bloody point of it all.

Regards

Disco.
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Follow Up By: Richard Kovac - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 18:37

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 18:37
Disco

Don't worry the Labor party is saying it because we believe in it and have for a long time.

Richard
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Follow Up By: disco driver - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 21:08

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 21:08
Richard,

I'm sure that there are others of all political persuasion who also feel the need to say "Sorry" for all the right reasons. (I too feel sorry for those who were taken)

BUT if those who have been clamoring for us to say "Sorry" to THEM are not satisfied with what our "Apology/Sorry' offer contains,..........................
WHAT HAPPENS NEXT.
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Follow Up By: Richard Kovac - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:01

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:01
It doesnt matter, the first step has been taken, for all the right reasons, and any good can come from that, (I Hope) XXX...
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Follow Up By: Richard Kovac - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:18

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:18
"only good can come from that"

Dam this red wine,

It's a pity the French did not clam Australia I just love the way French women speak.. :-)
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Reply By: Kumunara (NT) - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:15

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:15
Mike


This is a subject which will draw out a lot of various opinions. I have read some of them - I definately do not agree with a lot of them.

There was a government policy which was to remove any child that was not born to two Aboriginal parents. The belief was that the children would because they were part white be brought up as "civilised". This was justified by social darwinism. That is the belief that Aboriginal people are inferior and would become extinct.

What saying sorry is about is expressing a regret that this has happened. I was not responsible for what happened back then. It was abhorent. It was wrong. I have no hesitation in expressing that regret. I did not do it and I will not say sorry as if I was responsible.

There are two things about the past. We should learn from the mistakes of the past and try not to repeat them. The other important thing is not to dwell on the past - move on and look to the future.

From some of what is said here it is obvious that they have had little contact with Aboriginal people and believe the stereotypes protrayed in the media. I have associated with Aboriginal people for 55 years. Both as family, friends and also working with Aboriginal Communities.

I still work with Aboriginal communities and have met some fantastic people. Some of the posts generalise. I have met Aboriginal people from a University Professor to Longgrass people. All people are different no matter what their ethnic background. As different as the points of view that have been expressed on this forum.



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Follow Up By: Member - Fred G (NSW) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:27

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:27
Great response Kumanara (NT) Echos my sentiments to a tee.
I have special and fond memories of growing up as a young boy amongst the true outback aboriginals on a very remote NT cattle station in the early fifties. The white station staff lived in the homestead, and the aboriginal community attached to that station still lived in their traditional camps, away from the homestead. We all lived and worked in harmony, and both cultures were respected and understood, and everyone was happy. The Aboriginals were the backbone of the station staff. Many things have influenced the development of these people since then.
No one is disputing that there aren't massive social problems within some aboriginal communities of today, but are they any different to those within many city communities?
There is no quick fix unfortunately, and that's very sad.
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Reply By: richor - Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:21

Friday, Feb 08, 2008 at 23:21
I am thankful that our Prime Minister is going to appologise to the stolen generation for a number of reasons.

To genuinely say sorry you have to respect the people you are saying sorry to. You are acknowledging that they are a part of our Australian community; that they are a compassionate, intelligent people who care for and love their children and have been severely hurt by the forced removal of those children. It is acknowledging that those children have been ripped away from their families and have lost their culture and their identity, and crucially have lost their role models from within their own family structure.

I feel good about the apology and it appears that many Aboriginal people do as well.

I know it sounds corny but I believe that this is a starting point, a line drawn in the sand, a start of healing and that with good intentions and good will from all Australians, the atrocious conditions reported regulary from Aboriginal communities will be a thing of the past.

Regards,
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Follow Up By: Mainey (wa) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 01:32

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 01:32
"""the atrocious conditions reported regularly from Aboriginal communities will be a thing of the past"""

Can I suggest you go to Broome for look at what the locals (nice Aboriginal and even Anglo-Saxon) have to put up with there..........it's fast becoming a sh1thole !!

Then go to Alice Springs, go look at the dozens if not hundreds of homes purpose built for the local aboriginal population. They have just torn up the timber floors and used them to make a camp fire in the back yard, with the tin sheeting from the roof as the humpy roof to keep off the rain.

Then if you have time go to any of the 'closed' settlements up north, look at the living conditions, ask yourself if you could live like that !!!
I suggest you could not, these people do have a choice, they can live in a clean home, with carpet and curtains, they choose not to, it's their choice.
We are attempting to 'coerce' or 'force' these people to live as we want to live our selves, it won't work, just as it won't work for you living in the exact same conditions they actually CHOOSE to live in.

These settlements are run by the local people, for the local people, with limited access to 'Anglo-Saxon' do gooders.
I had a gf who is an assistant manager at one such settlement, it's fenced off, (supposedly) alcohol free and the conditions are (by your and even my standard) atrocious at least, I could not live under those conditions, REMEMBER these homes were recently brand NEW, now they are almost demolished.

Is it your fault or mine? no, it's their choice just as it's your choice to live in the home you live in.

Mainey . . .





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Reply By: stevie1947 - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 00:18

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 00:18
I don't know how you can generalize this whole "stolen" generation problem. Every case would be different and I have no doubt that a lot of those kids "taken away" would have died if they stayed with thier mothers. A lot of the "stolen" kids went on to have meaningful and worthwhile lives contributing to society. Others unfortunately struggle, but this is what happens in society no matter what colour your skin and situation is.
As far as throwing good money after bad, well what is the answer? You can't expect someone to get off their arse if you just keep throwing money at them whether they are black or white. U can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped.
Me thinks this problem has just begun and will divide the nation unfortunately.
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Reply By: Mike Harding - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 09:08

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 09:08
I’ve changed my mind on this; previously I felt we should not say sorry now I feel we should.

I am still of the belief that the major motivation for the “Sorry” campaign was a political one instigated by self-serving manipulators in the Aboriginal community and supported by left wing white groups who tend to support anything which causes trouble and division. It also won considerable support from the soft-left inner city types, most of who have never seen an Aborigine, as it made them feel good about their hugely disproportionate wealth in comparison to most Aborigines.

However… without doubt many individuals were emotionally damaged and lost their families due to the (I believe well meaning) practice of removing children – I was particularly touched when listening to a middle aged Aboriginal woman speaking about how she had been removed from her mother and placed with a white family. She received a good upbringing, education and care but many years after her removal was reunited with her mother for the first time, unfortunately her mother could not speak English and the daughter could no longer speak the tribal language.

We should also remember this practice was not just directed at black people, my Great Uncle was a “Barnardo’s Boy” and was removed from his family in the UK, placed in care and subsequently shipped to Australia at about 9 years old. I only met him a few times but speaking to him shortly before his death about his experiences on arrival in Qld and being sent to work on a farm did not make a happy tale.

If saying sorry is about providing some emotional comfort for the lady I mention above, my Uncle and people who suffered in similar ways then we should say it. However if it’s about providing a basis for legal action so lawyers can make a mint and aspiring Aboriginal and white politicians can have a tub to thump their self-importance upon then we should consider its value carefully.

“Sorry” is not a one way device – for it to have any real value the person receiving the apology must be able and willing to whole-heartedly accept it. A line from a song by Mary Chapin Carpenter reads “forgiveness doesn’t come with a debt”. So let’s say “Sorry” and then move forward leaving the past where it belongs.

Mike Harding

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Follow Up By: Member - Barnesy - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:57

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:57
Thank you Mike. A well thought out reply.
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Follow Up By: Member - Matt M (ACT) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 17:32

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 17:32
Mike,

Like you I have alternated my views on this subject, and like you I am coming down on the side of the 'apologists'. There seem to be three major arguments against an apology and they have all reared their head in this thread.

Firstly, why should we apologise when the intention behind actions to remove children from their families/communities/culture was well meant? It is too easy to hide behind this umbrella, well meant but misdirected actions do not lessen the hurt or damage caused, you can't just say that because someone or a group of people believed in something that it makes it OK. Hitler had absolute belief in his policies of racial cleansing, but you hear very few voices suggesting that reparations should not be made or that war criminals should not be brought to account because they believed they were doing the right thing by humanity. I am not suggesting the scale of these two examples in any way bears comparison, but removal of Aboriginal children from their families and Jewish genocide were both carried out by groups who believed that what they were doing was right.

Secondly, the argument that an apology opens a litigation floodgate. Maybe, but perhaps (as some in this thread have suggested) a heartfelt apolgy is a first step to healing the bonds between fellow countrymen that might lead to a longer term solution (maybe even with the wider Aboriginal community). If that process cost billions of dollars, then so be it. I would like people to honestly tell me where we would rather spend our money as a higher priority than in assisting a group of disenfranchised fellow Australians. Foreign aid perhaps? More military spending? Arts grants?

The third argument is, I believe, a fundamental one. I wasn't involved so why should I be held to account? Whether we like it or not, treatment of the stolen generation forms part of our collective conscience and part of what makes us a nation. For better or for worse. Many people who would use this argument are the same ones who will take great pride in the events and attitudes that have shaped the character of our nation. How many of you feel a sense of pride and identity stemming from, say, the ANZAC spirit and tradition. Well guess what? You weren't there so you are not entitled to share in that spirit, if you believe that past actions and events are not your responsibility. I don't believe that we have the right (arrogance even) to pick and choose what we as a nation consider to be our heritage, we take it all, the good and the tragic, and we recognise that it part of our collective conscience to celebrate and to reconcile where needed.

Reconciliation is, I believe, sorely needed here.

Matt
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Follow Up By: Bware (Tweed Valley) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 15:04

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 15:04
Matt, I really like what you've written about the third argument; your logic is hard to refute. 'The sins of the father should not be visited upon the child' is one of the main reasons given for not saying sorry, yet, as you have pointed out, people don't seem to mind 'the glory of the father being visited upon the child'.

I'm pretty sure that when 'we' beat the Indians in cricket recently, I didn't take any wickets or score any runs, but 'we' beat them. 'We' hosted the Olympics, 'we' developed micro-surgery etc. It is not a case of semantics; it is about our national identity. It is this 'we' that took aboriginal children away from their families.

Regards,

Brian
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Follow Up By: mfewster - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 22:23

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 22:23
I support Barnsey. Thank you Mike for an interesting post and I agree with your analysis, especially your comments showing that the "stolen generation" policies weren't just directed to aboriginals, they were the state of thinking of well meaning whites to welfare in general at the time. Even so, there is quite a lot of evidence that shows that during the 20's and 30's, many Australians expected aboriginal culture to simply fade away and saw removal of children as a way of protecting them. It is also true that many current aboriginal leaders gained their education and skills as a result of being "taken away." Never the less, the policy destroyed families, culture and self esteem.
Aboriginal Australia has not faded away and if we are to tackle the current problems the apology is a necessary start to the building process.. One of the great difficulties of working on indigenous issues is that our culture needs a 'peak body" to negotiate with. We want one organization, one voice that can represent all aboriginal people and then our leaders can negotiate the deal with their leaders. Unfortunately, aboriginal society just isn't like this. There is no one indigenous voice or perspective. It is going to be a long difficult journey, but the "apology" is seen as an indication of goodwill on behalf of official Australia and a necessary step if we are going to make progress on the issue. It is just a symbol, but symbols are also important.
And no, I am not in favour of the "apology" being used for damages claims and really can't see why it should be a justification.
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Reply By: balko - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:59

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 10:59
What about all the fathers , son,s , husbands, that were conscripted to go to war in first and second world wars. Has there been a sorry and does that mean as a descendant should i be entitled to compensation. As alot went without wanting to go but were forced and some didn,t even come home. My feeling is let sleeping dogs lie and let,s help all aussies go forward as 1


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Reply By: Hairy (NT) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 11:17

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 11:17
Gday,
Hasnt this thread drifted off into the standard blackfella argument, about welfare, rape, property destruction etc.?
Like a couple people have already said this is about the "stolen generation".
Wether you think their should be an apology or whaterver, realy doest mater as its coming from parliment not the public.
I think If the government has half a brain it will stand up and say "SORRY". "Sorry to ALL Australians who the governments of the past have done wrong by, that they regret that it happened wether It needed to or not and hope to hell that they are never in a position anyone would think it was nessesary to do something simillar again.
Now get over it and look toward the future!!!!
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Follow Up By: Hairy (NT) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 11:20

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 11:20
Oh and SORRY...I forgot something,
when blackfellas say sorry, it isnt used in quite the same text as mainstream society...its more like mourning and showing your loss....
Again .....SORRY!!!!
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Reply By: Member - Lionel A (WA) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 12:12

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 12:12
Getting a bit bored with this subject now, it'll keep going on and on, a bit like the Princess Di saga or who killed Kennedy.

Think I'll go back to Fridges, Tyres, NextG, 3Ltr Nissans and what to do with my 2.5 kids in our air/con Prado with portable DVD player, i-pods and laptop while driving them to the local cinema....hahaha....

Cheers.....Lionel.
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Follow Up By: wigger - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 14:36

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 14:36
Lionel,
I think I suggested about a week ago That this subject would degenerate in to some nasty stuff and racial sterotypying, ala Axel and BANJO stuff) and we haven't even got to the release of the statement on the 13th.
Next bet:-----that some of the above posters will want to have another go next week.
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Follow Up By: Member - Lionel A (WA) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 16:46

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 16:46
Hi wigger,
Yes you are right to a certain degree. There have been some replies and comments that lean towards "racial sterotyping" however, an equal number of replies have been balanced and well constructed arguments as to why an apology should be given.

Personally my experiences with indigenous people, to a large degree, have not been pleasant or positive. This in turn has forged a feeling towards them that some would consider well right of center. Others would have experienced the opposite. But! and a big BUT...To be forcebly removed from ones family, friends, home and culture....no matter what the intention....would leave me a very bitter man.

Having said this I dont think any replies Ive read I would consider racist, nor any I would consider bleeding heart softcocks.

Credit to a mature forum .......... Lionel.
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Reply By: Dunco (NSW) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 12:24

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 12:24
Seems like there was a little "moderator" deletion here and there. Oh well, so much for being honest.
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Reply By: stevie1947 - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 12:40

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 12:40
What ever happened to FREEDOM of SPEACH in this country?
The doo-gooders have stuffed this country. They are the ones that started this problem in the first intance and now they are reponsible for the current situation. Funny that!!!!!
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Follow Up By: wigger - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 14:41

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 14:41
Stevie,
This is the dumbest post I've seen for a long time.
Did you complete year 2 at school. If you did learn to read then there's still time for you to make up some of the massive lost ground in your wider education.
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Follow Up By: Dunco (NSW) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 17:23

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 17:23
Good on you Steve for being honest. Cannot ask for more.

I do not like false people


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Reply By: stevie1947 - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 16:58

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 16:58
Wigger/Wanker u ignoramus. U r entitled to your opinion as I am.
Me thinks u have a hidden agenda. Maybe your skin is a little dark? If it is....SORRY.
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Follow Up By: turbopete - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 17:53

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 17:53
AUSTRALIAN APOLOGY TO THE ABORIGINAL POPULATION

We apologise for giving you doctors and free medical care, which allows you to survive and multiply so that you can demand
apologies.

We apologise for helping you to read and teaching you the English language, thus opening up to you the entire European civilisation,
thought and enterprise.

We feel that we must apologise for building hundreds of homes for you, which you have vandalised and destroyed.

We apologise for giving you law and order which has helped prevent you from slaughtering one another and using the unfortunate for
food purposes.

We apologise for developing large farms and properties, which today feed you, where before, you had the benefits of living off the
land and starving during droughts.

We apologise for providing you with warm clothing made of fabric to replace the animal skins you used before.

We apologise for building roads and railway tracks between cities and building cars so that you no longer have to walk over harsh
terrain.

We apologise for paying off your vehicles when you fail to pay the instalments.

.

We apologise for giving you free travel anywhere, whenever.

We apologise for giving each and every member of your family $100.00 and free travel to attend an aboriginal funeral.

We apologise for not charging you rent on any lands when white people have to pay.

We apologise for giving you interest free loans.

We apologise for developing oil wells and minerals, including gold and diamonds which you never used and had no idea of their value.

We apologise for developing Ayers rock and Kakadu, and handing them over to you so that you get all the money.

We apologise for allowing taxpayers money to be paid towards a daughters' wedding ($8,000.00 each daughter).

We apologise for giving you $1.7 billion per year for your 250,000 people, which is $48,000.00 per aboriginal man, woman and child.

We apologise for working hard to pay taxes that finance your welfare, medical care, education, etc to the tune of $1.2 billion each
year.

We apologise for you having to approach the aboriginal affairs department to verify the above figures. For the trouble you will
have identifying the "uncle toms" in your own community who are getting richer and leaving some of you living in squalor and
poverty.

We do apologise. We really do.

We humbly beg your forgiveness for all the above sins.

We are only too happy to take back all the above and return you to the paradise of the "outback", whenever you are ready.

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Follow Up By: Member - Barnesy - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:51

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:51
Turbopete a letter:
To the Australian government,
Thank you for invading our land, despite the fact we had lived here for over 50 000 years quite well and we were healthy.

Thanks for kicking us off of our land and leaving us with 2 choices, go inland into the desert or be killed.

We also appreciate the way you murdered our fathers and their fathers and then stole our children from us.

We didn't really want to be counted in the cencus or classed as human beings anyway so I didn't see the point of holding the 1967 referendum.

We are especially aware that it was still alright for a white person to murder one of us, as long as they had good reason.

We enjoy having a dysfunctional social structure but the wider Australian community is not at fault. We dissolve them of all responsibilty.

I urge the Australian government to give up on Aboriginal people as a lost cause. Save government money and effort and start another war in the middle east.

Yours sarcastically

Barnesy




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Follow Up By: Mike Harding - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:58

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:58
Fair enough, it's an emotive issue.

However my question is guys... when your anger is said and spent... where do we go from here...?

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Follow Up By: Member - Barnesy - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 00:44

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 00:44
Mike
>>where do we go from here...?

I'm out in a remote area hospital looking after about 75% Aboriginal patients. Saying sorry in itself won't fix the problems I see everyday but it can begin to heal some wounds of people of both sides.

I think the majority of Australians feel genuine, heartfelt anguish over this issue and formally acknowledging this will help heal both sides.

Some of these 'angry' people posting poorly thought out replies should come and work with me for a week and see how blind they really are.

All of those who feel compassion should come and work with me too because we need the staff!
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Follow Up By: burnt clutch - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 10:54

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 10:54
I'm with you Barnesy. I live and work in an indigenous community as a health professional and have spent most of my career working with indigenous people around Australia.
Unfortunately many in this thread seem to have developed a prejudice based on one or two half truths.
I urge everyone to learn more about indigenous history and culture and be truly informed of the issues. Go and work in an indigenous community. When your travelling through remote areas like Halls Creek, NT and North Queensland take some time and talk to these people. Ask them the questions you have. They are decent honest people that will you the truth rather than the rubbish that comes from politicians.

C'mon Truckster and Turbopete I dare you!
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Reply By: Truckster (Vic) - Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:10

Saturday, Feb 09, 2008 at 19:10
What about an apology, and no money changes hands - and all legal cases in the future cannot be claimed for financial benefit?

cause it aint about "sorry" its about $..specially since the smart legal people have told them how many BILLIONS they can claim less teh lawyers %ages.

1 more day till this thread is deleted I guess.
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Reply By: Mainey (wa) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 00:22

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 00:22
Geez,
Almost 1,700 View in only 24 hours....
could that be some sort of record ??

It says something about the thoughts of the people watching this thread...

It says they are V E R Y interested in the toppic !!!

Mainey . . .
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Reply By: Hairy (NT) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:07

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:07
After reading the last few posts I think there are more people we need to feel sorry about!!! Probably Colligwood supprters!

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Reply By: burnt clutch - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:46

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 02:46
I have worked as a health professional in the Kimberley, Central Australia and most recently living for 2 years in a Top End community I have to make comment. Incidently this remote community has a high percentage of "stolen generation' residents.
I believe that self esteem is a big issue when we think about indigineous people, especially those in remote areas. The community I live in had been enjoying full strength alcohol with limited club hours for several years until the task force took away. Then the task force says they wish to quarantine payments from centrelink which is a slap in the face for the majority of families here that look after there families well. In getting back to the sorry question. Why not say sorry. Show some compassion for the babies that were taken from their mothers arms at 7 weeks old because they are out there, I share a community with them. Some arrived at the mission in a cardboard box, others arrived in their teens.
I'm not so sure about compensation and can't see how it must be related to saying sorry.
Truckster and others, John Howard blew millions on political advertising, that could have compensated thousands!!!!!
Just MHO
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Follow Up By: Member - Barnesy - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 10:25

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 10:25
It seems that most who put in a little bit of mental thought into this post come out in favour of apologising. Those who have a chip on their shoulders will always find some reason (no matter how correct, pathetic or minute) to maintain the status quo.
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Follow Up By: Member -Steve.NT - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 13:29

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 13:29
Hey burnt clutch.

Do you live in Kunbarllanjnja??

Cheers Steve.
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Follow Up By: burnt clutch - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 19:15

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 19:15
No Steve,
I'm about to leave the Tiwi Islands after 2 years.
Cheers
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Reply By: Member - John (Vic) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 13:15

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 13:15
Interesting post Mr Harding.

I note that not one person who posted to this thread actually advocated waiting to hear what Mr Dudd says in relation to "sorry" before passing comment for or against.
Mr Howard said on many occasions that he was "personally" sorry for past indiscretions towards various segments of the indigenous community, will Mr Dudd do the same??

I would suggest that we don't really know what he may say sorry for, or how it will be worded.
It could be a left hand sorry or a right hand sorry or just perhaps one right up the middle.
The media as usual are pre-empting the contents of the speech with no real facts at hand and so are the posters on here.
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Follow Up By: Member - John (Vic) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 13:45

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 13:45
Just as an addendum to my post.
I just heard claimed on the news that Mr Dudd still has not been able to finalise the contents of his speech 3 days out from when it is supposed to be delivered.

If Dudd does not know what he will say how can anyone else??
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Follow Up By: Richard Kovac - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 16:00

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 16:00
Gees John it's going to be a long 8 - 10 years for you .. LOL

try this site you may learn something http://www.alp.org.au/index.php

:-)

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Follow Up By: Member - John (Vic) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 16:20

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 16:20
Sorry Richard, Search shows No sorry policy on that site.
So Richard tell me what Mr Dudd will actually be saying on Wednesday?
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Follow Up By: Mike Harding - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 16:37

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 16:37
John: the posts to this thread have, very largely, been considered and spoken from the heart - on both sides - you are clearly simply trying to cause trouble and be divisive by driving your own personal political agenda - by doing so you attempt to degrade the value of the many posts and people who preceded you. Grow up and stop it.

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Follow Up By: Member - John (Vic) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 17:02

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 17:02
Please tell me what I have said that could in anyway be further decisive than what has already been said in this thread?
Posts to this thread have been from several different perspectives and regardless of what Dudd says on Wednesday 50 per cent of the country won't like it.

I have not expressed a view on the subject other than speculation on the use of the word "sorry" is wide and varied but no one as yet knows and if we can believe the media neither does the PM what will be said and what it may mean or if it will be accepted by the intended recipients.
Which I point out is in complete keeping with your subject topic
"What sort of "Sorry" are we?"
My comments are simple, YOU don't know what he will say and what sort of sorry it may be.

Its good to see your condescending attitude has not deserted you Mike and your continued attempts to denigrate posters on this forum really shows your self centered attitude to its fullest.
Its you that should grow up Mike your ways are well known on here.


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Follow Up By: wigger - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 20:22

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 20:22
John , I think you give yourself away when you start referring to
Kevin Rudd as 'dudd'. Mike harding might be right when he tells you to grow up.
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Follow Up By: Member - John (Vic) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 21:33

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 21:33
wigger, You're obviously a new poster to this forum, keeping that in mind you obviously have no background knowledge of Mr Hardings ways, attitude to others or self centered intentions.

Mike's reply comes not from the heart but from his lack of self esteem which causes him to take every opportunity to put down anyone who expresses a point or opinion different to his.
The rule on here is that Mike is always right. (in his own mind that is)
And anyone who differs from him or makes a mistake in a post or reply will be in the sights for future attempted ridicule.

Rudd, Dudd, Mr Yes, Yes Man Rudd, Howard, Kevin, John, Johnny, Little Kevin, Little Johnny, Milky Bar Kidd, Mr Sheen or whatever takes your fancy is not an uncommon way for lots of Australians to display their affection or other towards our Prime Minister.
What a great country we live in that allows us to express our thoughts publicly in whatever fashion takes our fancy.
If you don't like it then tuff, I'm sure you will get over it.
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Follow Up By: mfewster - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 22:58

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 22:58
John, your comments on Mike H. just don't stand up. He and I have crossed swords on this forum a few times and probably will again. Yes he puts his point of view forcefully, fair enough. Based on our previous exchanges, he thinks about and responds to opposing points of view and changes his viewpoint in the light of the arguments. Note his statement on how he has changed his position on this topic over the years. Your personal comments on Mike H are completely unwarranted.
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Follow Up By: Member - John (Vic) - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 23:07

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 23:07
mfewster we will just have to agree to disagree.
I like many others have watched Mike's attitude display for quite a number of years.
Just because you have not seen or experienced it does not mean it has not happened.

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Reply By: stevie1947 - Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 22:55

Sunday, Feb 10, 2008 at 22:55
Take note Wigger/Wanker. You suffer with the same affliction of smug, smart arse comments. Your earlier comment of "did you only go to grade 2 at school" is a bit childish. Perhaps you went to Wanker school where you obviously passed with credits and distinctions.
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Reply By: Al & Mrs Al - Al & Lyn, Romsey - Monday, Feb 11, 2008 at 08:01

Monday, Feb 11, 2008 at 08:01
Geez Mike..a can of worms here...I wish I"d seen Axel's post so I knew why it was deleted...I don't think any of us should feel guilty for what happened...I think we should feel sorrow that people have been hurt......it's very hard to put oursleves in a position where we understand how people felt or feel when it didn't happen to us. It's such an emotive issue, and I suppose it brings out the best and the worst in some people..

I would like to know the wording so I can give an opinion of whether it should have been said that way.

But, you ask what do we mean by sorry...I think, that we mean that it is now time to move forward...to admit that a wrong occured to some people...and now we can move forward to live and work together for the benefit of all "non mihi, non tibi, sed nobis"

at least that's what I'd like to think it means...

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Reply By: mfewster - Tuesday, Feb 12, 2008 at 18:55

Tuesday, Feb 12, 2008 at 18:55
OK. I'll bite. Now we have seen the actual wording I think it meets the need. I also rather liked the traditional indigenous trappings at the opening of Parliament. Similar to the opening used at most official events in the NT. Similar to the New Zealand Parliament, I understand.
Best of all however was the piece written by Noel Pearson in The Australian today. For reasons I won't develop at this point, I disagree with him re compensation, but what a punchy, comprehensive coverage of the range of issues and the politics involved.
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Follow Up By: Mike Harding - Tuesday, Feb 12, 2008 at 19:13

Tuesday, Feb 12, 2008 at 19:13
As always... Noel Pearson is an exponent of sense - perhaps, one day, a future major leader in this country - I hope so.

Noel Pearson in The Australian newspaper

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