Wednesday, May 12, 2010 at 16:52
Hi Ian,
Seems some great replies to the
forum thread question and some people there who have 'travelled' and have the kids in that age bracket.
Some good 'real life' experience there from the replies.
The gereral consensus seems to be to wait till school is over, (sounds like just a couple years anyway) and then some great travelling without the kids.
Perhaps you may have a very close knit family, and want to share the experiences together, or perhaps a burden could also be taken off your plate with waiting. You will know your own circumstances and situation.
Perhaps a 'serious' discussion with the kids, explaining the realities of studies, or even the advice of speaking with their school/dist ed centre and more info gathering. Maybe the excitement of a year travelling round is clouding better judgement on yours and your kids, or maybe taking the extended break and have them join full time school again after a year or two is also a great option.
Only you know your circumstances.
It seems though, as I briefly touched on, that at that age 'friends' are a big input and a big influence.
From my own experience, dist ed was a big growing up time, had no one else to rely on and in my case, no one else to blame for bad grades, (which suddenly became good) and the travelling afterwards was an even bigger leanring curve on its own. 14 years away from Aust.
Each persons situation different, I moved out (kicked out) of
home at 17, put myself through school last years of school, worked fulltime at the same time, left Australia at 20, travelled a large part of the other continents. Returning
home in a few months with 3 houses paid for and a year or two more of travel round Aust in the planning.
Not too bad for a dumb kid that failed at school.
Have met many families making some serious overland
treks and admit though that their kids were of the younger years.
Surely Ian,
Not a decision to be taken lightly, but what ever decision you do undertake, will be the right one without regrets.
In note to the family above with the 14 year old, perhaps they cut short their trip, but many people dream or talk of it, without actually doing it. At least they tried, they never failed, they gave it a good go. Thats the Aussie mentality, "give it a go".
Sorry for waffling, some great advice from families who fit both criteria, good luck with any decision and wish you all the best.
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Follow Up By: Member - Matt & Caz H (QLD) - Thursday, May 13, 2010 at 09:30
Thursday, May 13, 2010 at 09:30
Hi CruisinDub,
Great post and good on you!!! you should and probably are very proud of yourself. (its funny my mum showed me her school reports recently and it commented on how she was "quite retarted" when it came to mathematics, she happens to be a top accountant, has her own practise and is VERY successful!!) Yes life got difficult for us with Jake being a teenager, missing his mates ect, his schooling did pick up because as you say it was a growth period and no one else to blame. We all learn't HEAPS whilst travelling and I would encourage everyone to give it a go if thats what they want to do.
Ian, you could also look at it another way, as CruisinDub suggested wait till the kids are finished school then as a family perhaps take off - the kids can put off further studies till after they have travelled - before we travelled Jake wasn't sure what he wanted to do when he left school, whilst in
Kununurra he had the opportunity to spend a week in a vet clinic - this has changed the course of his life, he is now doing advanced maths and science in school as he wants to become a vet surgeon.
Distance Education is a fantastic thing and it does enable a person to grow individually ect however there is a LOT of work to be done and it does make travelling very difficult. When we first started out I actually enrolled the two younger ones (grade 1 and grade 3) in
Home schooling as you do you own thing (within reason) they were
young enough, when Jake joined us Grade 10 maths ect was way beyond me so we opted for distance education.
Cheers
Caz
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