Monday, Dec 06, 2004 at 21:48
G'day
Dingo,
I've read what the others have been saying and it's good to see so many positive responses; with nobody going off half-cocked and arguing.
What I have to say may not be all that relavent, but here goes....
Come tomorrow, it will be 34 years to the day since I joined the NAB; and I am still in their employ!!
I often think to myself and say to others that "life is not a dress rehearsal; you only get one chance to get it right" etc
I think to myself that I am wasting my life working for such a large organisation which couldn't give 2 hoots whether I live or die.
Then, last week, I read something on one of these "funny" emails that comes around. It said something like........
When we are at school, we long for the days when we can go to work and earn our own money.
When we are
young teenagers we long for the day when we can drive.
When we get married, we (well some of us) long to have kids.
When we have new-borns, we long for them to grow a little so they can talk to us and play footy etc.
When they are 8 or 9 we wish they'd grow up and be self-sufficient teenagers.
When they're teenagers, we will they'd get their damn adolescence over and done with and POQ somewhere else.
When we are in our 40's we wish we could retire (that's ME now; 49).
When we get into our 50's we feel life is passing us by and wonder what we have achieved....we start to see some of our friends falling off the perch and think, flamin' hell I could be next!!
It went on to say that we should be "grateful" for every stage of our life and make the most of it. I'm trying to do this myself.....I have a
young (2nd) family, so retiring early is not an option unless my lotto numbers come up.
I know it's off the track from your original post, but I suppose what it is saying is that we all need to keep things in perspective and make the most of what we have.
I like Willem's reply and really wish I had the balls to just up anchor, sell off a whole load of accumulated chattels and take the family on a never-ending "working holiday".....Trouble is, you and I know both know there would be serious challenges with that too and I would probably end up longing for the "piece of mind" that comes from having a steady job and permanent roof over the ol'
scone.
I don't pretend to know anything about your industry, but being a banker who deals with self-employed people every day, I can certainly understand the type of issues which confront you. I hear it all the time how Gov't seems hell bent on destroying the fabric of the small enterprise. I've seen the bull-twang that issues from gov't departments....you'd swear it was generated by a computer that had been programmed by a 2 year-old kid.
I'd better stop now; I'm starting to froth at the mouth!!! LOL
Mate, please try to keep smiling and make it your business to get out into the bush (even just for a picnic with your loved-ones) at least once a month.....
Good luck and best wishes.....
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Follow Up By: DINGO - Tuesday, Dec 07, 2004 at 08:47
Tuesday, Dec 07, 2004 at 08:47
Roachie i think there is a lot to be said for working for someone , especially these days. sure i can please myself if i want a day of here and there etc but in reality i have the pressure with me all the time and you always have that something in the back of your head saying "you realy should be doing this" or "have you forgotten a job?" "i hope they remembers to programm the pumps" "i had better not go away next weekend as it looks like it will frost" etc etc etc etc etc
so if you can earn a good living and not have this stress and be able to walk at knock off time and be as free as a bird until when you start then this has to be worth a lot. not to mention security of income too.
like Bob said when you start to wake up at 2am and all the jobs just keep running around in your head and you can't get back to sleep until 4am then when you get going at 6am you feel like you have been working all night, something is wrong!
you know over the years the majority of people i have met that are "fair dinkum" all have some connection to the land ie they iether grew up on the land or in a rural town with access to mates farms etc as well as exposure to farming communities or they visited relations for holidays in rural area's or they just did a lot of
camping etc, i find that so many that have been stuck in the city full time just don't seem to get it and i feel that we are now starting to be governed by 2nd and 3rd generations of people that are not in touch with basic reality. not i am going on a tangent sorry.
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Follow Up By: Member - Roachie (SA) - Tuesday, Dec 07, 2004 at 11:45
Tuesday, Dec 07, 2004 at 11:45
Dingo,
You're dead right mate. I don't realise how lucky I am I guess. I make a point of leaving my work worries at the bank when I go home (although this is sometimes not quite possible). I can take my 4 weeks leave each year and unwind and re-charge the ol' batteries. I have a lot of self-employed mates too and they often say they'd love to come on one of our annual trips, but they just can't afford the luxury of being away for 4 weeks at a time. Most of them have a 10 day break around xmas/new year and that's it. I just couldn't do that; it'd drive me nuts.
I sincerely hope you can find an answer to your dilemma.
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