Tuesday, Oct 24, 2006 at 09:41
Hi Jodi,
She sounds like she is settling in. I forgot to mention a few things yesterday. Hopefully you will not need any of this stuff.
If you give her bones watch for constipation and any bloating. It is a very individual thing, some dogs are fine with them with others it is nothing but trouble (bowel obstructiions, bone stuck in gums). She may like chicken necks as
well.
Dog packs are linear. Every dog has its spot, there is no such thing as two dogs on the same level. They just don't do equal. They are either accepted as above or below or they fight to find out where their spot is. I mention this if you have kids. In most homes the pack order is:
Wife
Husband
older children
dog
young children
Why is the wife on top?? Easy she controls the food.
There are issues this can causes as your dog finds her spot. Most of the time they will just slot in at the bottom and then work their way up (or stay at the bottom). This is built in behaviour, it is just part of being a dog. This is why
young kids should be kept away while the dog is eating. You have given them the food and they will defend it from pack members lower than itself possibly in a very agressive way, particularly if they have been neglected in the past. This does not mean they are a bad or viscious dog, they are just being a dog as designed. But you as the pack leader will be able to do anything so don't assume if you can do something the dog will take it from anybody else.
I really suggest that you take your dog to training. They can help you deal with any issues that appear quickly before they get out of hand. You are giving your dog signals all the time by the way you behave and how you treat her. It is a good idea to know what you are saying.
You need to be the
alpha with the dog at the bottom of the heap. If the dog gets to
alpha, you can be in big trouble even if it is a JR. If there are any issues see your vet or training group asap. A good idea is to reinforce the hirarchy all the time. This can be easily done. Just get her to sit. Put her food down and tell her to wait, but don't let her eat then give her a command to eat. Make her wait at least 30 seconds. This reinforces your spot on top and many dogs will not eat until told. This can stop your dog being baited as they will not eat stuff chucked over the fence. Just remember to tell anyone who is looking after your dog what the word is. This is so common now that a lot of kennels ask if the dog has been trained this way.
I have learnt all this the hard way but am in no way an expert. So I suggest you get help asap from a proffessional if it looks like stuff is going wrong.
Steve
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