Wiring of driving lights to prado

Hi all, I'm having issues with wiring of these lights and getting them to work. The lights are lightforce, the wiring loom is one of those ones already made up from TJM which they use on all there lights, heavy duty. Now I have wired plenty of them up before and never had any issues so what the f#@%. The relay sits in one of those holders with the wires coming up into the base you just push the relay into it (hope you know what I mean). I have no 86 being direct power from the battery with an inline fuse and fuse is ok, 25 amp, 87 running out to lights, 85 goes to switch on dash then back out again and picks up the power from the high beam wire from behind headlight, I'm presumig no 30 goes to earth ?? Or have I got this all a rse about ?? Bit hard to see exactly where all the wires are going as they are running throught that ribbed plastic stuff and all taped up. Regards Steve M