Tuesday, Oct 14, 2008 at 12:46
WILLEM, I’LL START WITH YOU:
>“You are not a Member here so you have no commitment to the site. So threatening to leave doesn't really wash. It is up to you however. 99% of the material on this
Forum is good value.”
If me saying that I am seriously thinking of leaving doesn’t wash with you, then that is fine by me. I have read this
forum for a couple of years now, I ‘registered’ - (is that what it is called?) – in about July, with a view to eventually upgrading that to
membership; Which means that if I leave now then you have lost a potential paying member.
>“I have been here since 2002 and we have had some classic stoushes, arguments, name calling, bleep words and more.
Some protagonists have been on here for a long time and go
Fishing for arguments or elicit negative responses. Then there are the TROLL posts mainly during school holidays.”
I won’t complain about the stoushes, arguments, name calling etc, being the exception rather than the rule. What I am seeing is it becoming the rule rather than the exception. I often see someone start a thread with worthwhile information or a question, somebody will reply, - sensibly or not, - and there starts a page or two of name calling, ‘bleeps’ etc, etc, etc. I DO NOT APPRECIATE THAT. (I don’t remember straight off the names of the ringleaders.)
>“All of this is part of human nature but our aggression towards one another via the internet medium is unwarranted and I have been guilty of that too at times. It is very easy to sit here at a keyboard and vent whatever feelings you may have without any consequences. Many people may post late at night after consuming a number of beverages which may or may not cloud their judgement.”
I agree, and I am of the view that we should ALL (me included) ask ourselves “Would I say this to so-n-so if they were standing next to me in front of everyone that is on this
forum??”
>“A function of this site is ALERT MODERATOR. In here you may go to the Management of this site and make a suggestion or ask for a post to be removed giving your valid reasons. It is then up to the Management to make up their minds what they want to do. Sometimes Management delete a post without a request being made if they feel it is contrary to the site image.”
Thank you for drawing that to my attention, I was unaware that I as a non-Member was able to do that. I am prepared to say to management everything that I have said here if that is necessary.
JIM,:
>“Further to what
young Willem has said, I did a
search of "Diamantina" and frankly found nothing. That is to say, what has been your contribution to this wonderful site that makes you feel you have some right to lambaste it?”
Where did you
search??? I searched for myself and came up with all the posts that I have written, a lot of other stuff came up as well, but all my posts are there. I won’t say that the little I have contributed has been unworthwhile, nor will I say it has been worthwhile, but maybe have another look. If you like I could find the posts in question and link to them for you.
>“Whilst a lot of the banter in the said thread was quite childish, most of those involved have actually contributed significant content over the years, which has made this the place it is.”
I don’t doubt for one minute that they (whoever ‘they’ are) haven’t contributed significant content over the years; all I said was that the majority of posts in thread 62474 were disgraceful. I then made a general comment that the overall standard of this
forum has gone downhill noticeably.
DAZA – please see my reply in paragraph 2.
I also wish to make the point – If I have been put off by the content of the threads, who else has?? How many supporters & paying members are ‘we’ losing by what is being written??
It took me a long time to pluck up the courage to post for the first time because I couldn’t be sure of the reception I would get – would I be blasted or not??
I have found useful information and I appreciate the vast experience of many of you on this
forum, and thank those who have graciously replied to my questions etc. All I am asking for a tidying of the tone of the place. I read a couple of other forums, and the whole atmosphere on them is far lighter, brighter, and friendlier to those who come in from outside - and I assure you that there is language and comments that I would regard as unacceptable.
I have said what I wish to say, and unless I have am seriously mistaken on a point, then I would like to leave the matter there.
-D-
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