End of our "bringing up kids" Era

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This note is about our experiences of many years of bringing up kids in a bush setting and how the skills learnt translated into a single recent event as our son now 18 moves out of school and into the adult world.

The major motocross race meeting of the year for our large innercity club has just been held.

There are 5 races per class held over 2 days.

This year our trip priorites have been to ride the Simpson dessert
and the Border track on bikes with our son, but its also final year at high school and this has had to take precedence, so many other racing activities have been stopped.
However endurance rides like the Simpson had gone well, with an unexpected winning of the Birdsville bike races whilst passing thru. The constant grind of jumping sand dune after sand dune hour after hour had also kept our fitness and race prepardness levels up.

The final year exams were last wednesday, and while most of the kids were now preparing for "Schoolies" we now had just two days to convert the bike from an enduro desert bike to its bare essentials for ours sons ride in the big race.

His RMZ 250 4 stroke is a good bike but in our top motocross class the 4 strokes have to race against similar sized 2-stoke 250's.
There was no chance our sons bike could win on speed and even less when we found out that one of the states top riders was coming down to ride, and was bringing his faster 2-stroke for the 5 race series.

The day before race day was miserable but we managed to drag out the tyre pliers , fit new bike tyres between showers and remove the electrics required for desert trips and were on the start line at 9am anixous and ready to go.

But what luck! the pro 2-stroke rider hadn't shown up - we learnt later that he had missed the train and would arrive an hour late.
Now in race 1 we had a chance to build up a bit of a points lead, and lock in a placing which would be a great way to end an eventful year.
Our son started well but after 8 of 9 laps in the lead crashed out the bike and winded himself such that even after he got going again he could only finish 2nd last.
Our possible points gift had been blown.
To win now we would have to win the remaining 4 races ,an impossible task.
Especially as the missing pro-rider had now turned up at the track
ready for race 2 which was about to start.
Race 2 began with an excellant start as our bike took the lead but by the first corner the two more powerful 2-strokes had taken over and blasted thru.
The race was a progression lap after lap and we pulled in 3rd. Leading the 4 strokes and while a hundred meters behind the pro-rider we had keep within touch of the 2nd 2-stroke.

This year the races had been lengthened to a full 10 minutes + 1 lap.
This is seriously hard work and even with only 2 races down the toll was beginning to show on eveybody.
The first "Break" of the day then occurred as a rider in another class slid just in front of where I was flag marshalling, hitting a tyre and taking out his collabone.

Two more accidents soon followed and within half an hour all of the local hospitals 3 ambulances were queued up trackside as the patients were prepared.
The first rider down was told that he couldn't be operated on till to-morrow and hence refused to get into the ambulance and insisted on staying to watch his mates races.
After some arguements, someone gave him a greenstick and he was in fairyland and was bundled into the ambulance without further protest.
By this timme two unmarked police cars had shown up just checking on things.
Even the helicopter gave a flypass, but things seemed to settle and racing began again.

Watching this, all we could do was to get our son-rider to rest and take it easy, whilst the others were carrying on and talking up the results and various incidents.
Recently the Patrol had been modified to have beds inside it for the Pryennes trip and an enforced rest was had by the rider in readiness for the days last race.

The days last race went well, while we had no chance against the pro-rider on the 2-stroke we managed to outrace the 2nd 2-stroke by a bike length and finish the days events in overall 3rd
spot which should make the podium. This would at least be some reward for all the hard work studying whilst his mates were practicing at the track.

Next day - race four began, it looked like a re-run of the previous days with the pro-rider set to win his 3rd straight race whilst our bike would fight it out for 2nd place against the other 2-stroke.

Coming over a tabletop on the back straight the pro-riders bike was near horizontal to the ground as it flew the 70ft before its landing, somehow he hadn't corrected properly and the front wheel washed out and he landed hard on his front leg kneepad. The hit was so voilent that as we learned later the carbon fibre "unbreakable knee pad" had cracked as it saved his leg.
Our son and the 2nd 2-stroke were already into the jumps upramp and now side by side in the air.
They just had to make the best of where they were to land.
The landing favoured us, and our son held onto the lead for a heart stopping last three laps taking out his only win of the meeting. The pro-rider made an impressive effort to get up
after his fall and ride like the wind to close the gap finishing 3rd.
There had been a few other incidents with other riders resulting in marshalls disqualifying them or reducing the points and a tally of positions was announced which had us in 2nd place overall with the pro-rider in 3rd place, but certain to win the deciding last race.

Any of 3 riders now had the potential to win the event. If we finished 2nd ahead of the 2nd 2-stroke and just behind the pro-rider we might just win the championship on a countback.

The tension was pretty thick as the flag dropped for the last time and with a beautifully executed start our bike again took an initial lead again only to be swamped by the two 2-strokes at the first
corner. The pro-rider cleared out ahead as usual and left the pack to fight it out.
We were 3rd, and we only needed that extra placing to have a winning chance.
The race was on and the competition ferocious. For 6 laps the bikes thundered around the track with ours swapping places between 2nd and 3rd with the 2nd 2-stroke. By now the 3 lead bikes were beginning to lap the others and just then one of the tail enders lost it, going down hard.
The next 20 seconds were very long as the tail ender rolled over and over and then the rider just lay, unmoving, right in the middle of the track.
Our bike and the 2nd 2-stroke swerved either side of the fallen rider.
Ours came out in front and rounded the next bend finally in 2nd place with a chance of winning if only the rider could hang on for 3 more laps.
The yellow flag then came out and my son slowed the bike, whereapon he was passed by the other bike under flags. The officals were naturally pre-occupied with the unconsious rider laying in the middle of the track and for the first time in the fifty races that weekend the Red flag was brought out and the race stopped.

Several issues now needed sorting out !
10 minutes later the downed rider was up and apparently not seriously hurt, but still delirous to the situation he had caused.

The race was more than 1/2 over when stopped and hence was declared - it would not be re-run.

An offical had seen our bike passed under the yellow flag and we were re-placed 2nd.

An overall 5 race countback of points was undertaken and as we held our breath our son was declared overall winner of the championship by the barest of margins.


We are probably overproud parents but for us this event will represent the end of era in which we have spent 18 or so years taking kids and to the bush, often with bikes.
Generating an interest in exloring things along our beaches and across the deserts and into the mountains.
All the time teaching them to drive, change tyres, improvise with that they have whilst dodging bureaucy and officals who have reduced any realistic alternative to learning these skills whilst in a parallel world some of the other parents battle with drugs drink and re-habilitation centres.
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Reply By: austastar - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 08:51

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 08:51
"over proud"
Nah!
Sounds like it was a bloody good life long team effort.
cheers
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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:09

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:09
Thanks Austastar , I suspect you know the effort involved.
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Reply By: Member - Oldplodder (QLD) - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 08:55

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 08:55
Good one Robin, and congrats.
Yes, your son won the race, but you set him up over 18 years to win.

Our two boys are now 26 and 22, and while not quite as adventourous at 18 had their moments too. Both have found jobs they enjoy doing, because they knew they could work through the difficult times to get what they wanted. They also had a practical grounding in life as your son has, to be able to work out what they wanted.

Great being a parent isn't it, most of the time. :o)

If our two are anything to go by, you might have a few more interesting moments over the next few years too.
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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:11

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:11
Hi Oldplodder

Glad you made it thru to , and I hope the "interesting moments" ahead are less expensive than maintaining a race bike.
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Reply By: Member - Captain (WA) - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 09:00

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 09:00
A great read and what a story - you can be proud of your son's achievements.

Cheers

Captain
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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:14

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:14
Thanks Captain , I'm glad it read well cause even though its a bit long I had to leave out so much !

There was less trauma when we locked all 4 and slid down a long wet hill in the middle of the night backwards.
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Reply By: Member - DAZA (QLD) - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 12:41

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 12:41
Hi All

My Cook and I are blessed with Two Great Sons 38 and 35 years old,
I lost my Parents when I was 11 years old, after that I was Dragged
Up, through the system, and vowed and declared after I got
Married that if I become a Father, I would make sure my Kids were
given every opportunity to succeed, thanks to a Terrific Wife we
are MEMBERS OF THE PROUD PARENTS CLUB.

Cheers
Daza

P S. Great Story Robin, you have had Success to.
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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:16

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:16
Hi Daza , saw a bit of that side when I was growing up and I think , as you probably do, that it does make you more determined to get it right when its your turn.

Pity we don't get practise runs !

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Reply By: Flywest - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 12:54

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 12:54
If he'd a gone to schoolies - likely he'd a got drunk and got laid...

yeah - reckon at 18 - I'd a sooner been riding bikes in the desert too! (sarcasm there).

Lets see - when he's about 50 ish - is he gonna be thinking:-

I wish I'd a laid afew more a them hotties back in school while i could

or I wish I'd a ridden a few more motorbikes?

yeah - thats what I'm thinking!

Bye the time he gets round to it - them hotties are gonna be fat old wrinkly uglies - married & divorced twice with a tribe a someone elses kids!!

You shoulda sent him to schoolies! ;o)

(non of us can relive our lives thru our kids - it aint fair on them!)

Cheers!
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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 14:37

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 14:37
Believe me Flywest, standing on a podium with the winning trophy in your hand doesn't leave you short on female attention.
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Reply By: Moose - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:49

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 13:49
G'day Robin
I rarely read long articles but yours are an exception as I always find them interesting.
Congratulations to your son on winning and to you on raising a kid who passed up on the chance to get pi$$ed at schoolies. If only there were more like him who had something interesting to do instead of using grog as a crutch for a good time.
Yes it certainly pleasing to raise our kids with an appreciation of the outdoors. My son too passed up the regular schoolies thing a couple of years ago and went camping with a bunch of friends instead. Has been away with his friends a few times (camping, hunting etc) and since he was introduced to camping from when he travelled in the baby capsule he usually takes control of the group since few of the others are experienced in the outdoors. But they are getting there with his assistance. And he isn't particularly fond of alcohol which is a good thing.
Cheers from the Moose
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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 14:38

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 14:38
Hi Moose

Good to see that it has been working for you as well, it can be a tricky especially with something like bike riding with its inherrent risks but I do agree that providing a real and interesting alternative to hanging around the streets is benefical, even though there have been times one could have easily slept in instead.
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Reply By: Muddies Doe(Trippn) - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 16:24

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 16:24
Hi

Congrats to all.
It's a great feeling knowing ALL that hard work was for something in the end. Even if your son didn't make it to the top 3 you both would've still been very proud of your son's overall achievements.

Make sure you both now take the time out to enjoy the rest of your live - together!

Cya
:)
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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 21:32

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 21:32
Your right Trippn , we never expected that sucess , even though it seems long I had to leave a lot out of that post like the fact that he had not had a serious race for months because of a broken collar bone.

Even then we never push the winning thing , mum's happy when everyone just comes home in one piece.
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Reply By: Bob Y. - Qld - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 20:54

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 20:54
Robin,

Sounds like your son deserves everything he earned, and you have a right to be proud.

Go the 4 strokes!!!

Regards,

Bob.
Seen it all, Done it all.
Can't remember most of it.

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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 21:35

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 21:35
Hi Bob

Its been interesting to watch the demise of the 2-strokes , but when conditions are good for them like last weekend they are just so seriously fast.
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Reply By: Best Off Road - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 20:59

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 20:59
Robin,

A great read. Had me on the edge of my seat, barracking for your lad.

I really enjoyed it.

Regards,

Jim.

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Follow Up By: Robin Miller - Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 21:38

Tuesday, Nov 18, 2008 at 21:38
Hi Jim

Thanks , and hope things worked out ok after missing the Pyrennes. Maybe next time we will have time to chat without deadlines.
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