Derogatory Comments about Service providers
Submitted: Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 22:50
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Wayne's 60
Hi all,
Taking into account that we are following the "good old US of A' in the litigation stakes .... there are times I wonder the value of posting negative or derogatory comments about a service providor, organisation or business.
For a number of years we have adopted an alternate approach ........ and instead of degrading ....... rightly or wrongly ...... we tend to go the other way ........ and promote the
services that have provided service that has been above and beyond.
There have been a number of posts ..... although too few .... on this
forum that promote good service ......... something we should all be seeking and promoting.
Cheers,
Wayne & Sally.
Reply By: Member - Porl - Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:06
Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:06
Alla the
Jimboomba post, 205
views but so far I was the only one to say what is the point of such a post? It may be justified if there were sufficient clarity but it was sadly absent.
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Reply By: Motherhen - Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:14
Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:14
Hi Wayne and Sally
Sometimes a bad experience 'on the day' can cause us to judge a business rather harshly. I am a firm believer in telling everyone about the good experiences rather than bad. This is a much better approach. It also works in favour of readers. Supposing one day we get to town XXX and need a mechanic. We find there are five in town, and one has been given a bad report on the
forum. It is still a gamble of which if four to pick, and maybe the guy who gave the member bad service has been sacked, or the business changed hands, or would have been good for us anyway. If someone says mechanic YYY was good to us, that is the one we choose. Easy.
Good news stories please.
Motherhen
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Follow Up By: The Landy - Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:24
Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:24
Motherhen...like your thinking here!
Cheers
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Follow Up By: Rob! - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 11:40
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 11:40
Couldn't similar changes occur if someone gave them a good report?
I think, if asked, people should give their opinion, good or bad. By giving any opinion you automatically open yourself to criticism.
To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.
:)
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Follow Up By: Motherhen - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 14:37
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 14:37
Of courses changes could occur Rob, but lets be positive, and smile about life.
Reward the good and forget the bad.
Mh
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Reply By: Wayne's 60 - Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:41
Thursday, Feb 18, 2010 at 23:41
Hi Porl,
I think I will have to do further research, as I do not recall that post,
what was the post number please?? ........
I do thank you for taking the time to comment .... and enjoy your weekend!!
Hi Motherhen,
I agree that there (appears) to be little of the "Good News Stories" ..... and too much of the .... (maybe) ..... "woe is me , I've been ripped off (read ... caught)" .. tales....
Maybe it is something that we can do, promote and as a group, change!!
Hi Landy,
Thanks for taking the time to comment!
Enjoy your travels too!! ... :-}
Cheers,
Wayne & Sally.
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Follow Up By: Member - Porl - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 08:13
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 08:13
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A few down. Dunno why it's still there.
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Reply By: The Boss - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 04:24
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 04:24
I suppose its how bad the service you get is, which determines if you then decide let other people know about. I see nothing wrong in naming and shaming a business if they have done the wrong, and if all the info is stated and true then people can then make up there own minds.
Word of mouth is what its all about, and there is no place quite like the internet to make a name for yourself, either good or bad.
Although in a perfect world i would prefer to see only great comments too, but some people dont operate there business like that, and have no concern for the customer.
I believe that in the old days it was hard to find bad service, nowadays its hard to find good service.
On a different note, i have heard great things about Wooders Garage whom i brought a scangauge from, i really do recommend them for excellent customer service and great postage times.
Cheers
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Follow Up By: vk1dx - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 06:22
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 06:22
There is some merit in warning people but there is a catch and it has to do with "getting your own story correct" first. Make sure you don't "forget to mention" some error you yourself made that may have caused the bad work etc.
If you read that Jumboola thread you will see that the customer failed to do the most important thing in laying down specs for the kit. Especially as it appeared to be a modification to a standard setup.
They did not get it in writing. Errors on both sides of the counter.
Phil
I would take great pleasure in mentioning the two
places we usenamely; the 4WD
shop in Hume and an alignment place like Aline in Queanbeyan but I wonder if I am allowed to do that.
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Follow Up By: Member - Phil B (WA) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 06:47
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 06:47
I agree with you Phil.
We need to stop and think what we may have contributed to the matter before we post "I got bad service at ..."
There is an old saying
"Don't blow out someone else's candle to make yours burn brighter."
Phil B
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Follow Up By: Member - Phil B (WA) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 06:47
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 06:47
I agree with you Phil.
We need to stop and think what we may have contributed to the matter before we post "I got bad service at ..."
There is an old saying
"Don't blow out someone else's candle to make yours burn brighter."
Phil B
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Follow Up By: Motherhen - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:50
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:50
Love the quote Phil. We can go further to say it does not make your candle burn brighter, you just feel it does. The rest of the world won't see it that way.
Mh
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Reply By: Member - janwiwes (INT) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 07:07
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 07:07
I agree with The Boss, although I greatly admire Wayne and Sally's attempts to stay positive always.
Only too few businesses realise that their reputation (for good service, for instance) comes on foot, but will vanish on horseback, if they don't perform up to expectations. I firmly believe in praising those who deserve it - and will, when the time is right. But telling it the way it is, when their service or the product sold by them is second rate or even worse, is often the only way these businesses will listen to the public's voice.
Hope to see you soon down under,
JWW
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Reply By: Sand Man (SA) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 07:15
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 07:15
I disagree with not alerting others to a company, business, organisation, or product that did not meet expectations, even if it was just once.
This is even more relevant if an issue was followed up with the management but not resolved satisfactory.
It is then up to other potential customers to make a decision about whether they utilise that service or product.
As for a good service or business, I have read many positive posts on this
forum, promoting and recommending a particular service or product received or obtained.
It's not about bagging a negative experience, but warning others to be that bit extra wary before committing to a product or service that may not live up to preconceived expectations.
I take negative comments with a "little bit of salt" but will also research or prepare a bit more, before making a decision.
Any litigation brought against a complainant, will also have a negative impact on that business, unless there are exceptional circumstances.
Bill.
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Follow Up By: Member - Timbo - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 13:18
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 13:18
I agree Bill, have benefitted myself from a few warnings about certain
places, and have also benefitted from a number of recommendations. As you say though, you need to "read between the lines" with any warning because you're usually only hearing/reading one side of the story.
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Reply By: Member - Myles F (QLD) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 07:38
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 07:38
Ever done jury service?
You hear the case for the prosecution and the accused is undoubtedly guilty.
Then you hear the case for the defence and your opinion is often changed.
IMHO only form an opinion when you’ve heard both sides.
You are more likely to be able to take a positive comment as being gospel.
Myles.
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Reply By: Geoff M - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 08:26
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 08:26
I agree that we tend to look and highlight our negative experiences more than we perhaps should, and we should have a balanced approach to the various service providers that we use.
However I see nothing wrong in alerting others to problems with particular service providers, providing they have had adequate opportunity to rectify the particular issue/problem.
For example, I have previously posted about the extreme poor service I personally have experienced with ARB. I have not done this lightly - many avenues have been pursued to rectify the problems but the end result is that they are not interested and don't care. On the other hand, my local 4WD centre has been terrific, along with Ironman when I had an issue with
suspension.
Hopefully the amount of good service experiences can outweight the bad experiences in the future!
Geoff
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Reply By: Member - lyndon NT - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 09:01
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 09:01
I can see good and bad points from Naming & Shaming, most of them covered above. However, what about pricing? I put a post here some time ago about the local dealer trying to charge me more than twice the (roughly) quoted price. No parts were needed, though this was given as the reason why they couldn’t give a firm quote. It was a routine service procedure! After a few days the post was moderated and completely removed.
I used the link provided by the mods to question their action, no reply was ever received from them.
Regards Lyndon
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Follow Up By: ModSquad - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:27
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:27
Lyndon,
The link provided in the email when you've been moderated is provided for the purpose of you supplying a "rewrite" of what you've written, not a request to question our actions.
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Follow Up By: Member - lyndon NT - Saturday, Feb 20, 2010 at 17:36
Saturday, Feb 20, 2010 at 17:36
Opp’s, my misunderstanding. However the ENTIRE post was deleted after several days due to “foul language”. Not on my behalf there wasn’t, otherwise you wouldn’t have left it up for so long. So, because someone used bad language in one of the replies you delete the ENTIRE post. Why not just delete the offending reply??
Regards Lyndon
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Follow Up By: ModSquad - Saturday, Feb 20, 2010 at 17:56
Saturday, Feb 20, 2010 at 17:56
Lyndon,
May we suggest you
check what you posted and if you wish the thread to be reinstated, remove the abbreviated Foul Language contained within your original post 74320 and contact us via email.
Regards
The Modsquad
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Reply By: Alloy c/t - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 10:15
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 10:15
Good service does not require praise , that is what you as the customer / consumer is already paying the service provider for , However a service provided above and beyond the norm definitly deserves praise,, By the same token any service / goods that fall below what would be construed as "good" should also be advertised otherwise the mediocre will never have the incentive to lift their game. Will be interesting to see how the star rating for food service providers that is to be implemented by
Brisbane city council affects the industry.
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Reply By: Mick O - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 12:37
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 12:37
I have no issue with reports of either good or bad service. I just ask that they are considered and accurate, particularly if you're bagging a service, product or provider.
I currently have a poor performing product back before its distributors and am waiting for their response. I'm hoping that the response will be positive and I will ensure I post either way. In doing so I'll include all the circumstances accurately so other
forum users can make an informed decision. I think providing
feedback either negative or positive, is a valuable service amongst a community of like minded individuals as it provides material for consideration when choosing products and spending your hard earned bucks. Again, I think that it must be considered, comprehensive and accurate. Don't let it's value be diminished by emotive responses.
Cheers Mick
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Follow Up By: OzTroopy - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 12:40
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 12:40
Too Right.
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Follow Up By: Member - Timbo - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 13:25
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 13:25
Well said Mick O: "Don't let it's value be diminished by emotive responses." I've written off most of the info on Complaints Corner because a lot of it seems exactly that.
There was also a chap on here a little while ago complaining about his ute - the way he reported certainly didn't have me crossing that particular brand or model off my list for "potential next 4WD" - and we only seemed to hear from him when he had another problem to report...
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Reply By: Maîneÿ . . .- Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 12:44
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 12:44
Where a business is condemned by one poster initially, then it's also taken up by others also imparting their negative opinions, you can be sure there is a problem to some degree with the business.
However, where the poster says a business is 'fantastic' it may also be a realistic post, but there are so many fantastic business's out there they most often go unreported, because we all expect them to be fantastic and if you read the relevant post it usually mentions a low price.
I don't believe I’ve ever read a negative post of any advertiser on here, does that imply all the advertisers have no problems?
Would you be game to post a negative post here about any advertiser?
I don't think so, but you are quick to post positively, that’s just human nature, as we like to protect our 'family' not denigrate it.
Maîneÿ . . .
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Follow Up By: Member - Timbo - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 13:28
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 13:28
Perhaps it would moderated?! ;-)
I think it works both ways Maîneÿ - I'd expect the 'advertisers' generally would take extra care to provide a good service to their EO customers, partly because they know that word gets around on here
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Follow Up By: Member - Andrew (QLD) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 14:42
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 14:42
"I don't believe I’ve ever read a negative post of any advertiser on here, does that imply all the advertisers have no problems?"
Remember the time Nissan was an advertiser ..........
Andrew
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Follow Up By: Alloy c/t - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 14:47
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 14:47
Fitch , Hiclone , never a negative ,,,,,,,, or should that be never a proven positive ,,, LOL.
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Follow Up By: Maîneÿ . . .- Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 15:08
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 15:08
now be nice,
I've two (2) Hiclones installed
I've not seen *proven* negative performance, so I'm happy with them :-)
Maîneÿ . . .
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Follow Up By: Member - Andrew (QLD) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 15:29
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 15:29
now, now...2 wrongs don't make a right LOL
Andrew
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Follow Up By: Maîneÿ . . .- Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 15:38
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 15:38
maybe don't understand they are not 'right' but straight through and .....
Have a gr8 weekend :-)
Maîneÿ . . .
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Follow Up By: Member - John (Vic) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:16
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:16
I have seen negative comments posted on here about current site advertisers over the years and to the advertisers credit they answered the comments and when their side was clearly outlined it made the original complainant look a bit silly.
Two sides to every story and unfortunately so many of us believe the original story without knowing all the facts.
I have a very good friend who served on Jury duty on a very serious case several years ago.
She had read the press coverage of this case a year or more before it went to trial and after the jury found the case against defendant was not proven and the defendant was clearly found to be innocent her comment to me was,
"It was stunning as to how inaccurate the press reports on the case actually were compared to the facts as presented in court"
Trial by media, It happens everyday and occurs on this
forum.
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Follow Up By: Member - Timbo - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 17:16
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 17:16
So true
John - Not wanting to start an argument, I'm continually amazed at the number of people who are adamant about either the guilt or innocence of people like Schapelle Corby or Lindy Chamberlain, etc. etc. baed on what they've heard in the news - the fact is that for most of us who only hear what Microphone Man* wants us to hear we'll never know for sure. Like people whinging on a
forum, the media only gives one side of the story. Thankfully, in Australian courts both sides are generally considered (although the process is still often politicised to an extent).
* Microphone Man is one who controls the public microphone while people speak - he either switches it on or off depending whether or not HE wants the audience to hear what the speaker has to say.
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Follow Up By: Geoff (Newcastle, NSW) - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 17:52
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 17:52
John,
This "Two sides to every story and unfortunately so many of us believe the original story without knowing all the facts. " is almost there!
I actually believe in most human conflict there are actually 3 sides to the story.
What person A said, what person B said and the most important, what really happened!
The third one is the hardest to get to.
Geoff
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Reply By: ExplorOz - David & Michelle - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:57
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 16:57
Thank you for your post Wayne and Sally. These issues are worth discussing, particuarly when people seem to think they are being helpful by warning others of their (negative) experience with a company.
Defamation laws have developed over several centuries to provide recourse for people whose reputation is or is likely to be harmed by publication of information about them.
Whilst defamation is in fact the most complex of all law, the threat of defamation is used widely. The issue with being threatened with this law is that the expense of defense is so high that people usually retract/remove their statements, which gives accusers the ability to use a claim of defamation as a means of chilling speech rather promptly. It is often used as a scare tactic - as it is just as difficult to have a court accept your claim of defamation and even consider a case. Very few cases actually make it to court as a result.
On ExplorOz, our site
Terms of Use and
Forum Rules clarify that what you post is your responsibility and we are safe from complaints made against us for what you publish, however you can be made liable if a court agrees in a case proceeding against you.
That said, ExplorOz is not interested in being the legal hot tub for all your complaints against others and businesses even when it is relevant to our industry. We did not create the
Forum for the purpose of giving those with complaints a soap box - and any misuse of the sites high profile position in the industry is a misuse of our service.
Our
Forum rules are here to protect the user experience and guide the general code of conduct that we have determined is appropriate and acceptable - from our point of view. They also ensure we can protect ourselves, and our reputation. This is why we have the Moderation Complaints rule.
It is important to realise that it is NOT the role of the site management nor the
Forum Moderators to distinguish truth or fiction of posted
Forum content. As of you intelligent folk have stated, there is often two sides to the story and it is not the role of us, nor this
Forum to determine truth in anything posted here. However, it is simply in good faith that our moderators will moderate a post for "Defamation" if it is very clear that the purpose of a post is purely to harm or damage the reputation of another. Our moderators are not actively able to "monitor" and read every post and often the accussed will contact us first to complain about what has been posted. In every instance where we receive a complaint about a post that names a company with the intent to cause harm to their business by publishing information about them we will remove the post. Keep in mind that you can also assist by using the Moderator Alert button if you are unsure about a post you see.
Hope this information helps with everyone's understanding of "our" defamation rule as it applies to the ExplorOz
Forum and rules in general.
Michelle Martin
Director - ExplorOz Advertising & Marketing
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Follow Up By: Motherhen - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 17:05
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 17:05
A good answer Michelle. I have found ExOz more tolerant of "naming and shaming" than any other
forum i have been on, because their Moderators are volunteers and have a fear of litigation.
Motherhen
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Reply By: Bob of KAOS - Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 22:52
Friday, Feb 19, 2010 at 22:52
Good thought Wayne and Sally
I am concerned that the anonymous 'naming and shaming' on a
forum like this, where the named party gets no right of reply, may lead to vindictive consumers unfairly badnaming a service.
I work in a service industry, and it may surprise you to know that some (many) consumers are absolute scumbags that should 'named and shamed'. It would be nice to be able to warn other businesses that this person is trouble, doesn't pay, is rude to reception staff etc.
My concern is that a scumbag consumer can unfairly attack a business with whom they are in disagreement, even if it is the complainant who is completely in the wrong.
Bob
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