Wednesday, Sep 08, 2010 at 21:12
A story for you....... 10 years ago... sitting at home in
Tom Price watching the video of the "Big Wet" based on a wet season in
Kakadu and i said to my wifey """""one day i will take you there to see it for yourself"""" ( i had already been there), bubs 3m old took a job at Cygnet Bay Pearls for 18m with house (check out there web site) wifey pregs, job at
Kakadu came up with accom close to
Darwin for birth, took it and moved 3 days after starting wifey had bubs, stayed at Cooinda (
Kakadu) for bout 2 yrs took job at Leeton NSW, never seen snow, saw, played rolled snow, moved back to
Darwin with job and rented house, hated citys took job at
Maningrida Arnhem land for 18m, moved to little island off Groote called Bickerton Island in the gulf of Carpenteria, wifey got pregs again, no idea how ?? moved back to
Darwin rented house, bubs no3 few months old and took job at Yarralin in Vic River Nat
park with housing, was transferred to Nyirripi down the Tanimi with housing, always talking about going to QLD, position came up at Roadhouse at
Doomadgee QLD with 3br house, good schooling ect so took it and that is where we are now.....
The beginning of our new adventure exploring QLD, we plan on working our way up to the cape and out to the islands over the next few (most likely 10) years .......
Regrets..... not doing it sooner when we were younger...
Advice 1 ....... take everything as it comes and be prepaired to radically change your plans at very short notice and at VERY GREAT cost .......
Advice 2 ...... do EVERYTHING with the kids in mind, sometimes that is hard but YOU can change at the drop of a hat, kids can not, if they are not happy wifey will not be happy and daddy will end up NOT happy and that is cr@p ...
Advice 3 ......... when the kids get to 8 and over they need to make "long term" friends and you need to spend time in
places for them to do it, in that i mean 1-2 years, they will lose "social" skills if you do not let them spend time learning about friendship/s .....
The hard bit........ to really get out there and enjoy it you will lose contact with a lot of people incluiding your family, they will/may go a bit dark on you for that, they cannot understand why YOU cant come over and see them yet dont seem to think that is the same distance for them to come and see you ..... that will hurt you at some stage/s but it all heals over time ....
And finally ... YOU WIN ..... why? because you will have done it and been there and seen that and your kids will be as tough as nails yet versitile to fit into any situation that comes up in this world and will love you dearly for it .....
Good luck if you still want to do it, you wont regret it in the long run ...
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